When the scores are passed each year, it is never the average family parent who is worried about the scores, but rather the voluntary ones。
In particular, parents with daughters always have more concerns than boys。
I've been in contact with countless parents, talking almost exactly the same: i don't want my children to go to school hard, i don't want my kids to go to school hard enough for 12 years, and i end up in the wrong profession, leaving school unemployed
Many parents wish to have a decent, stable, double resting and secure job and access to state enterprises, institutions and the civil service without displacement。
But reality is cruel
Every year, there are a large number of female students who, with good grades, are blindly and windy enough to report on popular professions, on the internet, and on the sound of high-quality subjects. After four years of university studies, it was found that the candidates had no job, had a serious job search, had a high rate of retirement, were either forced to move to work or had to work at a minimum wage。
Even more distressing is the fact that many children are not unattractive, they are wrong, they have spent four years, and the future job starters are falling short。
Many parents and children have been caught in an error zone: choice of profession for heat, fame, choice of students, except for employment rates, institutional suitability, suitability for women's careers and long-term stability。
As the creator of deep-tilled family education and career planning for many years, i have seen too many ordinary family regrets。
Today, there are no chicken soups, no anxiety, no empty words, and, together with thousands of cases of real advancement to school, there are 12 special courses in science and three in humanities for girls。
The greatest advantages of these professions are: lack of origin, lack of profiling, high employment rates, high tolerance rates, entry tests, entry into state enterprises, and entry into the workplace, which are well suited for a stable life for girls of ordinary families。
At the same time, in the context of years of child-rearing experience, i have been able to talk about the fact that most families are in school, the pits that are the easiest to step on as they grow up, and the way to land for parent-child communication, habits training, and guidance in times of rebellion, helping parents not only choose their profession, but also to have more informed, disciplined and planned children。
First, avoid the pits: girls choose a profession, 3 error zones that do not step on
Before sharing high-quality professions, i must make it clear to all parents: choose a profession, avoid pits and choose merit. The future of many children is delayed by three misconceptions。
Mistake one: blind pursuit of the "red hot gate specialty"
In previous years, e-commerce, short video operations, and the type of web-red design were highly hot, with numerous students applying. But the real employment situation is that the threshold is so low that it is possible to take up jobs without undergraduate, specialist or even self-study。
After four years of university studies, without core skills, without barriers to exclusive employment, the university will be able to compete with the low-educated population after graduation, with low pay, precarious wages, no five-risk pay, and even less access to the system。
Mistake 2: think "professional sounds useful."
There are a number of arts and arts specialties, name and art, which sound decent, but with very narrow employment and few institutional jobs. For example, in general literature, general culture and theoreticals of small art, there is almost no stable work except in the study and study of caibo and in re-education。
Children from ordinary families study such specialties, and the rate of graduation is likely to be difficult to cope with unemployment and transition。
Mistake iii: listen to "professionality doesn't matter. Graduation depends on ability."
That's the biggest lie。
For children with no resources, no connections and no backgrounds in ordinary households, the profession is the greatest base and threshold。
The recruitment of civil servants, institutions and state enterprises is subject to strict professional restrictions. Ninety per cent of stable jobs are reserved for students in regular professions. The scores are higher, the skills are stronger, the profession is not in line and there is no qualification。
The choice of a profession is a 12-year cold window for the average girl, the most fair and secure path to life。
Ii. First choice for girls in the arts: 3 new gold courses, solid institutionalization and lifelong fragrance
Many parents feel that literature is not well-employed and that there is no way out, but it is a mistake。
Humanities is not a bad idea, it's most people with the wrong profession. It is true that young humanities are hard to find employment, but these three are high-quality choices for institutional needs, young adults and girls who are well qualified, and are competing fairly, in terms of the size of their jobs and in terms of their quality。
1. Chinese language and literature
Not one of the well-deserved humanities “assumption of the almighty”。
The girls of many ordinary families with whom i am close to study this specialty, which leads to successful disembarkation of language teachers in primary and secondary schools, civil servants, civil servants, civil servants in state enterprises, are the ones with the highest tolerance and job security。
Core strengths:
The institutional coverage is extremely wide, with the department of education, the department of civil affairs, the department of public information, the street office and the party and political bodies recruiting the largest number of persons per year; the number of teachers is adequate, and the number of recruitments in primary and secondary schools in all regions is constant, without any contraction。
The orientation of employment is very broad: language teachers in primary and secondary schools, civil servants, clerks in the service, secretary of state administration, new media cases, assistant executives in enterprises. Even without institutionalization, civilian work under the line will never be lost。
More suitable for girls: decent work, a comfortable working environment, no night work, high social recognition, well-regulated retirement, well-suited for girls and home-care。
Many parents are concerned about the narrowness of employment and the lack of a way out, which is completely non-existent in this profession。
2. Law
A large number of people are turning their backs on the law, making it difficult for them to find employment, but only at the lower end of the job market。
A truly high-quality way out, all in the system. Law is the exclusive counterpart of the public prosecution service, the courts, the public prosecutor's office, the judicial service, the public security system, which specializes in recruiting a large number of law graduates each year, with very high professional barriers, few competitors and far higher chances of disembarkation than other humanities。
Core strengths:
Employment ceilings are high, social status is high and wages are stable. In addition to the candidates, they may pass the legal profession, be practising lawyers, business lawyers and notaries。
As age increases, experience becomes more valuable, typical of older and more fragrance professions, and there is no middle-aged unemployment crisis。
For self-regulating, caring and patient girls, law can be a good profession for the rest of their lives, and the only requirement is that it be tested, built up steadily and suitable for children willing to study。
3. Accounting
There is no alternative to the most stable and needed professions in the financial sector。
Financial accountancy is never available to private, state, corporate, corporate, government, industry or any other entity. It is a solid technical skill and learning is a lifelong skill。
Core strengths:
The employment rate is close to 100 per cent, it is extremely demanding and there is no industry phase-out risk. The internal fiscal authority, the audit office, the financial offices of the major countries, the banking system, and the number of accounting graduates registered throughout the year。
Work is stable, easy, regular, no business trips, no business trips, and promotions and increments based on credentials and competencies, completely independent of people and resources
Girls are considered and patient and are inherently qualified for accounting positions. As long as the child takes the primary and secondary certificate and has a steady job and a steady income for the rest of her life, she is the most secure of her studies。
The above-mentioned three arts professions, which do not follow, have no internal rolls, have no pitfalls, cover 90 per cent of stable jobs in the arts, and are permanent subjects certified by the job market for more than a decade。
Iii. Girls ' first choice in science: 12 high-quality primary studies, high-paid stable, institutional green corridors
Science is highly optional, but most of them are hard-working, travelling, physically demanding and not suitable for girls。
I have screened 12 suitable female students, decent employment, institutionalization and non-sexist science and gold subjects, divided into two main blocks, namely, stabilization systems, high-paying technology, and parents, depending on their child's personality and scores。
(i) institutionally stable demand category (6)
Such professionals are stable, well-developed, well-favourable and 100 per cent suitable for state enterprises, and girls are given priority for stabilization。
1. Nursing
Many parents are biased against care, suffer from hardship and lack of dignity, and public hospital nursing is the best option for girls in ordinary low-level science。
Three ace hospitals, public hospitals, community hospitals, health commission subdivisions are permanently recruited and the employment rate is extremely high. Five insurance premiums, paid annual leave, holiday benefits, and retirement security are fully paid at the local upstream level。
The job is stable, never unemployed, suitable for girls with medium scores who want to stabilize their jobs。
Preventive medicine
Medical professions are more suitable for girls than clinical medicine。
No surgery, no overnight emergency care, few patients, mainly in cdcs, health commissions, community health services centres, public health sections in public hospitals。
All are career development posts, with easy work, regularity and double breaks on weekends, and are highly qualified professions in the medical sector that are best suited to the ageing of girls。
3. Gardens, landscapes and gardens
Institutionalized parks and forest greening bureau, housing agency, municipal units, national enterprise and forestry corporation。
The working environment is good, low stress, low competition, low landing difficulties, high-intensity overtime, suitable for girls who prefer quiet and good trials。
4. Geographic information science
Specializing in small treasures, institutional demand, almost no one。
The department of natural resources, the department of surveying and mapping, the planning institute and the state enterprise survey company are specialized in their respective fields, employing a large number of posts and a small number of candidates, and have a very high landing rate for the examination。
Food quality and safety
The market supervision authority, the fda, the state enterprise food enterprises, and the quality control centre are new professionals。
Job stability, ease of work, high social demand, never-ending industry and zero pressure on female employment。
6. Biological sciences (teacher orientation)
Avoiding pure bio-scientific pits, choosing a teacher's orientation, preparing biological teachers at the primary and secondary secondary levels directly to each other, stable and decent and suitable for girls。
(ii) decent high-paid technical category (6)
These are highly skilled, highly paid, enterable state enterprises, and highly paid private employment, with high income and development priorities for girls。
1. Software engineering (foremost, test)
Many people feel that computers are tired, and in fact girls avoid back-end development, opt for front-end development, software testing, and adapt easily to their jobs。
Pay is much higher than the general profession, with access to internet factories, bank science and technology posts, information centres for state enterprises, technical posts for enterprises, high salaries and a wide range of options。
2. Big data management and applications
New and emerging professions require data talent from all walks of life. State enterprises, banks, corporations and large enterprises are heavily recruited, with a wide range of prospects and competition。
3. Financial management (science reportable)
The financial and economic professions for scientific students are more competitive than the arts, with counterparts in finance, banking, audit posts, pay and stability online。
Electrical engineering and its automation (weak direction)
The national grid, the southern grid core counterpart, the state enterprise job, the highest welfare, stable pay, and girls choosing weak electricity orientation without stress。
5. Network and new media (scientific adaptation)
Distinguished from the humanities and the general media, science focuses on new media operations, data operations, short video technology operations, high job performance and high employment rates。
6. Engineering costs
Technically available, state-owned construction companies, municipal companies and price-consulting companies are constantly recruiting people to eat on the basis of technology. The older they become, the more they eat, the less they run, the better for them。
All of the above 12 scientific disciplines, which avoid high-intensity physical work, the sunset industry and the inner pits, are the best for girls。
Iv. More important than choosing a profession is the ability of the child to grow up
Many parents think it's good to choose a profession, but it's not。
I've seen too many children, with high grades and well-selected professions, but universities are lazy, self-disciplined, unable to plan for themselves, finally spent four years, wasting their profession and opportunities。
The choice of a profession is an external opportunity for the child, while the habits, mentality and self-regulation of family education are inherent in the child. In the light of years of family education experience, four common families are sharing the necessary home-care methods to help their children meet quality opportunities。
1. Stop worrying communication and learn to be guided
Many parents communicate with their children, always accusing, comparing, nabbing: "why don't you try so hard": "everyone's better than you": "you're out of line with the wrong profession."。
Such communication can only lead to children being reversible, humbled and demoralized. Children, especially at the high school and university levels, are at an advanced stage of adolescence and have great self-esteem。
Correct landing method:
Less negative, more recommendations, less comparison, more certainty. Talk to the child about profession and future, not indoctrination, but an objective analysis of the advantages and disadvantages, leaving the choice to the child, with the parents only as staff officers。
Soft and committed communication enables children to learn to discipline themselves, to plan and to take responsibility for their own future。
2. Fostering planning habits from an early age and refusing to be casual
Many children opt for a profession that is blind and lost in college, rooted in a lack of planning from childhood to age, and are accustomed to passive learning and acceptance arrangements。
Landing method:
At the upper secondary level, the children plan their own life, plan their learning goals and plan their short-term tasks. Parents monitor and not make arrangements to make their children understand that life is their own and that they choose to take responsibility for it。
Children with planning skills, who choose a profession that is not blind, who attend university, who are not lost in employment, will always be one step ahead of their peers。
3. Scientific responses to a period of renegade and the establishment of healthy paternity
Almost all of the conflicts in access to education and voluntarism have erupted during the period of child rebellion。
The child's rebellion was not a disloyality, but a desire for free choice. Many parents forcibly interfered with the profession and arranged their volunteer service, which ultimately led their children to resist learning and the future。
Landing method:
Rebel periods are not rigid, respect the child's preferences and talents, and combine the child's personality with the child's choice of profession. Careful and patient children are qualified for civil service, teacher training, and children with a strong sense of logic are equipped with skills and legal skills. Teaching is the best option。
4. Parents are the best. Bottom gas
In the advanced examination and voluntary filing stages, parents are the most vulnerable to anxiety, and parents ' anxiety is passed on 100 per cent to their children。
Unsettled parents are unable to raise children who have a steady mind and are able to do their jobs。
Landing method:
In front of major choices, parents calm down without panic, complaining or anxiety. Reasonable analysis, casual choice, and a sense of security for the child, allow the child to choose and insist。
A good family education is not to force children to achieve high grades, but to develop the child's self-discipline, discipline, leadership and sustainability at the bottom, so that the child can remain socially stable regardless of the choice of profession。
V. Religious information for all regular family parents
The purpose of studying, choosing a profession and going to university is never to be rich or rich, but to give the average child a safe life。
For girls, a job that is stable, decent, secure and sustainable is the best life card that parents give their children。
The most successful educational outcome for ordinary families is a stable life, a decent income and an independent base, without merit, without connections, without luck and with their own profession and effort。
Professionals aren't absolutely good or bad, only fit or not. It is not always appropriate, it is not necessary for the crowd to be cold, and it is stability, demand, suitability, long-term preservation that is the core criterion for the selection of a profession by a regular girl。
It is hoped that every parent will be able to plan their children's volunteering rationally; it is hoped that every girl will be able to choose the right direction, the right window and the future。
Interactive topics
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Disclaimer
This paper is intended to be an experience-sharing exercise in planning for further education and is not absolutely oriented。
