"uploadid": "v0da62g10003d946p2ljht8o760vvg", "duration":848, "sourceprovider": "readttt", "contanttype": 1, "extra": "audio text": "we're talking about an ordinary man, who suddenly gets the prize, and then faces the pressure of great wealth and social mistrust, and then how he and his family are dealing with these challenges and holding their lives. Yeah, it's really a topic of interest to all of us, so let's start today's discussion. All right, let's start with the history of this lottery award and this huge psychological shock. That's when chow found out he was inTwenty millionWhat kind of psychological change did he experience in that moment? It was the lottery that lasted six days, not because he didn't want to win, but because he didn't dare. He is a 42-year-old ordinary warehousekeeper, then paid less every month and was under considerable economic pressure. Well, that day was november 13, '05, when he worked late on his way home, and he went to get a five-pointer lottery ticket and a pack of cigarettes. It's all a coincidence that it felt like fate was turning in that instant. Yeah, yeah. And then he went straight home and went to bed. As a result, the owner of the lottery store, wong, called him the next morning and said he had received a first prize of $20 million. Ah, chou did get that number right then, and his head was blanked and his first feeling was not joy but fear. It is interesting to say that such a large sum of wealth has suddenly come and has had a concrete impact on the daily life and work of the week. Well, he was putting that lottery ticket in an old book and stuffed it to the bottom of the closet. He also put his winter coat on it, then went to work as if nothing had happened, and although he was late, he did not speak. Oh, it looks peaceful on the surface, but it must have fallen overboard. Yes, his hands were shaking slightly while he was eating in the cafeteria, and the inventory count was wrong three times in the afternoon. There's no way to concentrate. And the more he gets, the more he gets scared. What happened when he came home from work and passed the lottery store? He saw a banner drawn at the door of his shop, which often bought lottery tickets. Warm congratulations to the two-coloured first prize of $20 million. Then a lot of people were there to look around and take pictures and say that when huang saw that he was going to talk, he gave him an old yellow look and said nothing. Envious, excited and godfearing, he felt very uncomfortable that he had left. All right, let's move on to the old week after the lottery. He had some interaction with his wife and some routine details within the family. Well, the lottery thing, did it change some of their family's discussions about money or some of their decisions about their son's education? In fact, when he came home, his wife was cooking in the kitchen, as usual, and then he sneezed at his wife just looking back at him and saying how he got home early, nothing was different. The rhythm of life doesn't seem to have been broken by the prize. Yeah, they're talking about their son's midterms at dinner. His wife said that only 78 points were given in mathematics and that the language of the english language had just passed. He wants to get his son a math tutorial for $200. Well, it's been a long time since chow ate and thought about it, and that's enough to give his son 80,000 lessons. But the only thing to say is that this month's money is a little tight, and his wife has not insisted because she's always been sensitive to economic pressures within her family. In the six days before cho decided to take the award, what was he prepared for, and what had happened to his mind? On his first day, he had the lottery ticket, wrapped it in three layers with a shampoo and put it in an envelope. It's stuck in the inner pocket of the top of the closet. Well, every day he takes a look at it before he goes out, and the first thing he does when he comes home is to touch the envelope. It's a little bit like this. Every day, you check your heart beat. Yeah, and the next day he took half a day off. He ran to the sheep district to see what that provincial centre looked like. But he just stood across the street for 20 minutes and imagined himself going in there to win the prize. Well, on the third day he began a calm calculation of how much the mortgage would pay, how much the parents would have to save and how much the son's education would have to save. He also bought a 10-dollar pair of sunglasses in the back and asked the head of the team for a day off to say something was wrong at home. On the sixth day, he chose a commercial bank that he had never opened. I'm going to run a type one card for this bonus. All right, let's focus on this problem and the question of identity in the bank card. What are the special psychological activities or preparations for zhou before he goes into the bank? He had checked his identity cards, lottery tickets and mobile phones three times before going out. And then i wore one of the most common dark blue jackets, and one black pants and an old pair of sneakers. It also messes up your hair and doesn't shave your beard so that you don't look at it. He really did, and every detail revealed such carelessness to attract attention. Yes, yes, he went to the bank door. And how do you tell the clerk, well, he's really nervous because he's been thinking. The more he thinks about it, the more he panics. What did chow say to the bank's staff when he had to save 10 million dollars? When he said he wanted to open a card and save 10 million. The clerk's hand stopped and looked at him and became very alert. Asked him immediately what the money came from, zhou said it was a lottery prize, and then the clerk said he had to wait for money-laundering. So banks are really very cautious about this. Yes, the supervisor came here and asked him if he had a certificate, and chow said i had the lottery, but i didn't want to take it out here. Well, the supervisor insisted on seeing the original lottery, otherwise there was no way to confirm the authenticity of the bonus. They have no way of excluding the risk of money-laundering. That is, how tense is the atmosphere on the ground when the bank demands that old chow must present a lottery ticket, otherwise it refuses to do business with him? The supervisor said so. If you don't get the lottery ticket to prove the origin of the money. They had no way of opening accounts and had the right to refuse him business. Well, at this point, the security guard came in, standing right behind his back, looking at him with that kind of vigilance, and it just became very tense. This pressure is really a little too much to breathe. Yeah, chow thinks he's a legitimate winner. But inside the bank, he was treated as a suspect. Well, he held the envelope with the lottery. In the end, he did not have the courage to bring it out, because he was really afraid that once it was out, his privacy and even his safety would not be guaranteed. Well, the bank asked for proof of the lottery as a source of funding. Can zhou prove himself without having to present the lottery in person? He offered to show them on his cell phone. A screenshot of his winning award from the lottery owner and a record of private correspondence. But the bank did not approve, saying that these were not valid certificates and that it was not willing to call wong to verify them. Oh, what's the last week of this stalemate? The bank insisted on either showing the lottery ticket or leaving, and zhou hesitated to return the lottery ticket to his pocket and left the bank. The security guard followed him to the door and reminded him of the dignity of his next business. Then we look at the reflections outside the bank and the concerns about the future. How does zhou feel about his image and what other people think of him when he is stopped outside by security guards because he's not dressed properly? He was standing outside the bank. The cold, wet air of the winter, woke him up. He can feel his back sweaty and cold. Well, he saw people on the street, everyone was running for life, and he was treated as a liar or a madman. Because he was wearing a tuxedo. Is he starting to look at himself from someone else's perspective? He looked down at his hairy jacket, his pants on his knees and his sneakers covered in dust. He felt his hair was greasy. And even his nails were covered in dirty black mud. If you were the security guard, it might be hard to believe that such a person would have more than 10 million. Hey, did chow think calmly after he left the bank and how to deal with the bonus and the problem with the bank card? He sat in front of the convenience store for a long time and kept thinking about the bank card. Well, he was wondering if it would still be the same problem if a new bank were to be created to upgrade the pay card to a class. The counter must also be asked about the source of the funds, and there is still no way to clarify itself and end up in a dead cycle. Does it feel like every road is blocked? Does he feel desperate? He even checked the award process at the provincial lottery centre. He had to use one type of bank card to receive the bonus and was unable to run it on site. Well, at the end of the day, he decided to go straight to the centre。i'll turn the prizes in and find a way to solve the bank card problem. Let's move on. What was it like when chow decided to tell his wife about this award? He was just determined to go to the zhuang centre. His wife called and asked where he was, and at first he wanted to be vague. Yeah, but his wife felt his tone, and he kept asking, and he finally said i got 20 million in the lottery. How did his wife react to that phone? It was quiet and then his wife said you were standing there and i came. Well, he lost his legs all of a sudden after he hung up on the phone, and that's how he felt he had to take all the energy for six days alone. Now it's half the burden. What happened between them after his wife arrived? His wife arrived in a taxi 40 minutes later, and she usually couldn't afford to. Well, she's wearing a slightly white red velvet that's already washed, hair with a ponytail and no makeup. Her lips are a little dry. Feels like she's in a hurry too. Yeah, she saw the first word after the week. Cho handed her the envelope. Her hands are actually shaking. Well, she unmasked the membrane, checked the number carefully, and then packed the lottery ticket to old chow. She suddenly touched chow's face and said you were alone for six days? The week was just a little hymn, and she took a deep breath and said that we're going back to the bank to run the card. Okay, so let's focus on the fact that the couple are back at the bank again, and, um, what's the difference between their attitude and their background? His wife was in front, very determined. Well, she's got a straight back, and the high heels knock on the ground, and she's not always the same. It's like you've got a heart. Yeah, after they got into the bank. Just tell the lobby manager we're meeting with your supervisor, and then his wife put the lottery ticket on the counter. Furthermore, she offered to provide the number of the provincial centre, which she could call at any time to verify. The attitude is very strong but calm. How did his wife respond to the bank's security and supervisor's questions during this card process? Uh, she just asked the guard how much you get for a month. Can you earn the change of my husband's lottery for the rest of your life? Well, then she asked the supervisor to show her the so-called proper-dressed rules for doing business, and the security guard couldn't say anything. She really doesn't give up at all. Yes, and then the supervisor offered to go through the approval process. She also said very simply that we should wait. Well, finally, the bank didn't just apologize, but it was quick to get them a set of cards, and it was enthusiastic enough to help them open the mobile bank. Well, the next thing we're concerned about is the fact that the prize has finally been paid, and what concrete financial arrangements have their families made and what real improvements have been made? In fact, they went to the provincial lottery centre the next day to hand over the prize, and the whole process was not so complicated, it was a tax deduction on the identification form, and then they were given a transfer check, and the money went to their new card. Did they immediately adjust their living expenses or make some big changes when they arrived? They just split the money calmly. Well, the mortgage was repaid once, and then half a million old-age pensions were saved for each parent, one million for the son, and the remaining 13 million were saved on a regular basis, and some national debt was bought, leaving hundreds of thousands of currents. Daily life is still the same, no change of house, no change of car, and no one around knows they won the prize. So what changes, visible and invisible changes did this win bring to their families? Well, the most obvious is his wife's hand, because he used to touch freezers in supermarkets every winter. Cho now bought her the best hand cream, and her hands slowly stopped breaking. She says it's wasted but it's used every day. These little details are particularly moving. That's right, and the son can finally go to the $200 math workshop. And then it went from 78 to 92. The parents went to the hospital for a review and did not have to worry about that. Zhou himself was finally able to sleep at night without having to open his eyes until dawn. Well, finally we're going back to a more interesting topic. After all, what new experiences has chou had in his life and himself? Well, sometimes he remembers what the guard said. Let him dress up, well, he's wearing the old blue jacket and the old feathers. His appearance hasn't changed, but his heart has changed. Isn't he, like, no longer the eyes of surprise? Yeah, he'll feel on the street. Even though he's as common as ever. But he doesn't have that kind of fear anymore. Well, he doesn't need to prove himself to anyone. He thinks it's the most real life he's ever had. And today we are here with you to witness an ordinary family in the face of sudden wealth. From anxiety to slow calm. Well, what's really precious is not that huge sum, but the sharing of family and the appreciation of ordinary life. Well, that's all for today. Thank you for listening to us next time. Bye-bye. ", "ttts m"https://tosv. Byed. Org/obj/tos-tingtoutiao/ai podcast m== sync, corrected by elderman == @elder man
