- the old man never answers? I'll teach you a few things to solve the problem so he won't leave you alone
One of the most common problems in recovering is probably: i've sent a lot of messages to my predecessor, why is there no news
A visitor told me that she broke up with her predecessor in early september because she fought often and she fought emotionally every time. This is a very common break-up situation, and the other half is tired of breaking up. She then began to recover, sending numerous messages, telephone calls to her predecessor in the month following separation, and eventually sunk to sea。
She's confused. I wonder if she'd like to save her ex. Want me to help her. Having learned about her, we began to recover guidance。
Why not
I don't care about you anymore, no matter what you do. He's only gonna get colder and colder, and he doesn't want to talk to you anymore, and he'll automatically ignore your news。
Maybe it's a lie. I want to see how much you love him。
Whatever the reasons for not returning to you, do not use anger to express his needs and ideas, which would only provoke his predecessors and make it more difficult to recover。
You can send it in a simple and straightforward way: i hope you'll return my message next time, so i feel you're paying attention. You don't need to contact your ex after he doesn't get back to you。
The mood wakes up
You can show your life in the circle of friends in the case of temporary interruptions, such as photographs of your work, photos of your lunches, photos of your self-discipline, etc。
This indirectly informed your predecessor about your recent journey, and made him know that you were not overwhelmed by feelings, but that it was only when you could not accept separation that he was often disturbed。
And now you're aware of your own shortcomings, and that's why you're spending your time in the powerful。
Seeing you like this not only changes the way he thought of you when he broke up, but also reminds you of the way you were when he was chasing you。
Channels of communication
When your predecessor sees your change, whether out of curiosity or discomfort, he may try to contact you, bearing in mind that at this point he must not be too enthusiastic。
You can interact with your predecessors in a question-and-answer manner, you can talk about life, you can talk about hobby, you can talk about work, you can talk about friends, but you can avoid talking about love。
And when he pursues you with his will, then speak with him, and show him how he wants to do it, so that he does not slow down at the moment。
It'll take time to get back together。
Do not seek peace at all, nor bombard the news at all. Only if you are drugged, you can make love work。
I don't know how to deal with emotional confusion
