How much money does it cost to get married every five or one of the golden weeks? Don't look at the bride's newbies, they don't spend much money. In 2017, a report on the status of chinese weddings was published on the website lily, which investigated the budgets for weddings of new entrants in six provinces. According to the research, a marriage isn't as expensive as everyone says。
Whether it is guangdong, jiangsu, or sichuan, sichuan and shaanxi in the coast, the budget for new marriages is between 40,000 and 80,000. And it's not impossible to have a simple wedding, even in beijing and shanghai, where more than 10 percent of new people spend less than 40,000. However, this was three years ago when the cost of marriage was rising. Insight on trends in marriage consumption in china 2020, published in the marriage service platform marriage service marriage day, shows that the average consumption per bride in china in 2019 was 223,000 yuan, 3. 5 times more than five years ago. Why would marriage cost so much money? The answer is the bar. According to a data from the chinese wedding fair, during the winter festival in guangzhou, the newcomers in guangzhou spent half of their wedding money on wedding parties in 2018。
This was also confirmed by the amount of the shanghai marriage fair in the fall of 2019 — the highest of which was the wine bar. In fact, the share of alcohol tables in the overall chinese marriage process has remained high. In the 1980s, the bar accounted for 60 percent of the wedding expenses. Thirty-four years later, the living conditions of the population, especially the diet, have improved significantly, and the bar remains the most expensive part of the wedding. The only rise in living conditions is in the size of the feast and the number of drinks, i. E., in the growing number of rehearsals. According to a study by yuen guanghua school of management at beijing university and others, the size of chinese wedding feasts increased from an average of 14 tables to 36 tables between 1980 and the present, about 2. 6 times more than in the past. And the cost of single tables has increased faster, at constant prices, from $64 per table in the 1980s to $263 in the 2010s, more than three times the increase。
In the question of bean petals above, the wedding bill that you share is also often a big one: “the second-line city of the packaged mail district, the middle hotel, 5500 tables, 50 tables, not including liquor cigarettes.” “the wedding is being prepared, 20 tables, 1,000 tables, or so. The city is about 30 tables, about 1600 tables. "we're in nanjing, 15 tables, 1888 tables, we're in nanjing, we're in nanjing, we're in nanjing for three meals." it's really too young to expect to earn money from a bar. Some of the new people had looked forward to getting paid for their weddings, asking online, “how can the weddings make money?” but found that unless everything was the cheapest, they would only lose their share. If it was in guangdong, it would have been better to put an end to that. Not to mention the fact that the money comes and goes, the joy of the money is the pain of the future。
The problem with pre-marriage is that it can be completely solved without burning money. Under the question “what to do to make money at a wedding”, the questioners were advised not to expect too much: “not necessarily to make money, not to say, tired.” this must be someone who's been involved in the wedding preparations. How complicated is the preparation for marriage? Weibo's wedding blogger @phino's wedding handbook has prepared a matrimony calendar for newers。
This prenuptial form is considered to be full and spans a full year. Why is the wedding so long? Because of the hotel banquets, the wedding plans, it's over. For example, the four main king kongs, which have had a significant impact on the outcome of the wedding (sorture, make-up, photographer, cameraman) usually have to make appointments at least six months in advance, and may have to make a reservation earlier if the wedding takes place at the height of the wedding, such as the 5-1 or national day. In this past national holiday, mid-autumn 8 days of holiday, ningbo's wedding curator did 13 weddings alone. Hotels are also booked early, and it is not surprising that, in the case of hot holidays or ecstasy days, six months or even one year earlier. Moreover, for many, weddings were the most important ritual of life and had to be prepared to be perfect. From the well-being of relatives and friends to their physical well-being, it affects the outcome of the wedding. However, according to the survey, not all newcomers have enough time to prepare for the wedding. Although 40. 1 per cent of the newcomers had been preparing for the wedding for at least one year, 34. 5 per cent had taken only one month to prepare and had become highly divided。
The survey also explains why a third of new entrants are in such a hurry to get married. The first reason is that young people are too busy to handle their work. But those who have had a short period of pre-marriage need not envy those who have been preparing for more than a year, because this process is a torture. “there is always a delivery, and every day there is a treasure hunt. From the beginning of anxiety to now of collapse. On a night of wind and rain, when i showered, i couldn't stop crying. A bride shares her prenuptial mentality in a little red book. The wedding is to be coordinated, the goods are to be prepared, and the marathon-style preparation meetings consume the enthusiasm and patience of the new man day after day. Thus, at the end of the pre-marriage period, many people were looking forward to their early release from marriage. "my husband says i'm in bad shape. Should i postpone my marriage? No, no, no! I wish it would be over tomorrow. God knows it's been almost a year, but it's not the last ten days。
However, when the marathon prenuptial marriage finally ended and the new man finally finished the wedding, it was very likely that he had not been able to get a happy wedding, despite spending a lot of time, energy and money。
According to surveys by chinese youth newspapers and others, 72 per cent of the respondents were not satisfied with their wedding. Why do you have to work so hard that you don't? The reason may be because of the effort. The new man thought that the day of the marriage was the end of the marathon, and in fact he was in the middle of another race that could not rest. In little red books, many brides re-open their weddings, moving, sweet and dissatisfied, and one of the biggest reasons for dissatisfied marriages is that they are too late and too tired。
A number of brides mentioned that they would get up at 4 or 5 a. M. On the day of the marriage and begin dressing for the wedding ceremony, which would be followed by a quick change of makeup and then a table table bending to drink. In addition to being too busy and tired, the most likely source of displeasure for the bride is the marriage that belongs to her, which is always manipulated. The bride explained why the wedding was so annoying: "my dad didn't have the money, he didn't have the power, he didn't want us to do it well. Everything's the best, it's the top of the line, he says, or he's embarrassed in front of his relatives and friends.” fathers who do not contribute to the marriage of their daughters are certainly not the majority, but they are the reason why many parents wish their children's weddings to be celebrated. In their studies, some interviewees stated that they themselves “do not want to have so many tables and weddings at the place of the parents of both sexes, but in many cases they are `acting on the orders of their parents' and `finishing the wishes of their parents”. This is also reflected in the search data。
After that, the main force of marriage now, it would be the people who do the most on the internet, but the fact is that non-internet aboriginals do not have much less access to this issue than they do after 90. In order to have a decent wedding for their children, they really did their homework, and they just worked hard for the new people to complete an important family social event at their wedding. The wedding has been a difficult one for the new people, and the only way to make money is to get married。
