First, let's think about itBreak upBackGirlsWhat do you mean you don't return the informationPsychologicalAnd why
Not all the parties who broke up after break-up were light and free, and they would question whether they broke up or not and would want to get back together。
You sent him so much information, he didn't know you wanted itRecoveryBut she didn't change her attitude because she didn't see any change in you, she didn't see any hope in you that you could go on, she didn't know whether you thought about your problems or whether you would do the same thing when you got back together, so she didn't miss the opportunity, because she was afraid, which was the ambivalence of the other。
It doesn't mean that you don't have a chance, that a lot of people were deleted after you broke up, that you've been sending messages to the girl, that she hasn't answered, but she hasn't deleted you, which proves that she left you a chance to block the road. 'cause she's still agitated about what happened before you, maybe indifferent words, maybe harming her, which leads her not to be associated with you for a while.'。
Because once she had a connection with you, some of the painful circumstances in which you had passed between her and her would be self-evident to her, and you would look like a mirror, and you would think of her former patience, so she chose the way to avoid it, which was a very normal reaction, and perhaps one day you inspired her negative emotions and caused her to vent them all, but it was not a bad thing, it could be a turning point。
If you can solve the trauma in her heart well, it will help you to get back together, but if you are distracted by her emotions, your conflict will increase, and perhaps you will lose your chance to save him。
We usually call it too strong a sense of need, and many people expose too much a sense of need in the process of recovery, and there is a sense of oppression, and she thinks that once she returns to you, you'll be bombarded endlessly again, and if so, she will be very careful to respond to you and not even to your message, so you must change your own way of talking, and you have to be guided step by step. Many boys think that a girl who doesn't return his message is trying to cut him off, and then deceiving herself, suggesting that she doesn't care about him anymore, and that she really does。
How do we solve this
You must realize that the fact that she doesn't return to you doesn't mean that she doesn't love you, that there's a word in psychology called trauma, that his definition is caused by an emergency that goes beyond the limits of everyday experience, that trauma as a child can always affect the life that follows, and that, in the white word, a snake bites, a decade of fear of a wellline, that we grow up with more or less trauma, such as the isolation of friends as a child, the rejection of a family, all of which may affect your attitude towards things later。
I don't know why you don't come back without a girl, not because i don't feel for you, but because i don't know how to face you, and if she really doesn't care about you, you're like a stranger to her, no matter how you talk to her。
It's like we're dealing with strangers, we don't usually have mood swings, we don't have different emotions because of his messages, so girls don't come back because they don't want to think about you, but this attitude is a responsible act, and she won't hang you while she doesn't answer to you, so try to change herself
Psychiatry test: testing the last words you wanted to say
1. Will you argue over minor matters while you're together
Yeah, i'm tired a lot
Very few quarrels about small things
Sometimes, but it'll be over soon
Do you think you are a person who likes to reflect on himself and is willing to correct your mistakes
Yes -3
No. - 4
3. Will ta give you its own troubles
I always say five
I don't know
Will you tell your parents about your relationship
It's nothing
Every once in a while they ask
Almost nothing. Nothing to say
5. How much energy do you wish to devote to what you want
It's my destiny. It's mine
Try. Maybe it'll work. Six
Do what i can. I want everything
Did you break up with someone else
Yes-a
No — 7
Have you been contacted since the break-up
Yes-d
No — c
