Original, your ellemen wiether
More and moreYoung peopleLeaving the north-east, either in search of better development opportunities or in an attempt to escape the life of the eye。
At the same time, there are young people who, after several years of training in large cities, have chosen to go back to the north-east. Today we found three young people who returned to the northeast. Why did they make that choice? Do you regret it now
"it's everywhere
Go back to the northeast and spell it better."
Before going to college, i never had the impression that the northeast was backward。
Perhaps because i come from the capital city of the northeast, where i live in good conditions and where i am an art examiner, i have the opportunity to have access to my peers across the country when taking a single test, and i do not feel that my vision is much worse than that of the first-line city. And in real life, there's almost no prejudice towards the northeast, and at best it's just a joke to say, “don't talk to me about the northeast so often, i'm afraid you'll take the professional classes away”。
Although i went to a media college in beijing later on, i did not exclude going back to work in the northeast, after all, where parents love “arranged children”, have a home, have parents to depend on and have a secure standard of living。
But when i was in high school, the internet was on the rise, and many of the older years of online vocabulary, like geographic black, were born in a time when people spoke online without fear. It was at that point that the internet always liked to discuss the identity of people in a particular region, and it was only then that i looked at my environment and found out, “oh, this is what happened in the northeast”。
After just one year of living in beijing, i went home on a cold vacation, and for the first time i felt uncomfortable with life in the northeast. Later in beijing, convenience stores and small restaurants are open. There were no convenience stores in the northeast, called “carries”, vacations and high school reunions, and we were hungry at midnight, trying to find food, and then we went to a few blocks, no open shop, and then we went home。
I've been thinking about it in my car. I haven't thought about it in 20 years. Why now
The northeast hasn't changed since we've experienced other citiesLifestyleIt is the sense of frustration, even prejudice against a city。
But i also feel that the northeast is changing, for example, some of beijing's milk and tea shops are operating in the northeast. But fewer people, more comfortable sittings, consumption levels and popular aesthetics are advancing, and many young people in very “front line” cities can be seen on the streets。
Although it can be felt that the north-east is moving forward, the first-line cities like beijing will move faster. When you get used to locking things up, it's uncomfortable when you slow down。
But in the third year after graduation, i came back。
After graduation, i started an art training facility with a friend. Beijing is too developed and resources and people are too rich, and it is very difficult to achieve results in a sector like this, which is scarce in small cities。
I've been taking money from home for three years and making some money, but not much. My parents don't have any financial pressure, and they support someone like me who's determined to start a business, but they're still hitting me from time to time asking if i want to go home. I've already had a little prejudice against the northeast, and if i don't want to go back, they're just doing it。
At the end of 2018, there was little improvement in training institutions, and we decided to close. I did it with a beijing boy who went straight to his parents' company. On the night of the breakup, we had a little drink, snuck around san ritung to over 2 a. M., and he waved and said he was going home, and then said, "you too."。
He meant to let me go home to sleep, but i got drunk, i got emotional and started thinking if i should go back to the northeast. I sent my mom a text message at 3:00 in the morning saying that i wanted to go home, and the next morning, my mom would come back。
But i stayed calm for more than a month before i finally decided to go back. There are not many art training institutions in the northeast, and i can still do what i do. For example, the soil of beijing can give a tree a higher size, because urban conditions are more favourable, but it does not mean that seeds can be planted in such seemingly undesirable places in the northeast。
And the third reason for going back is that my parents will support me as a training school, and i've offered to go back to the second week, and my dad's gone to see the place。
I should have left beijing earlier, two years after the outbreak, many friends decided to leave north shanghai to go home, and they talked to me before leaving, saying that beijing was too tired。
It's really exhausting, and maybe that's the cost of getting urban resources。
I've been home for three years, and i've been introduced to my parents, and we're all young people, and i've been in beijing for a few years. Although it has been said that fewer young people are returning to the north-east and fewer are willing to stay, the situation in the north-east is indeed getting better。
But the days back to the northeast are not as simple as i thought, and my start-up at home has failed again, and now the school is not in a bad state, but i am not in beijing with the kind of collapse and anxiety that i had in beijing – not just with the family, but with the sense that, in the northeast, life is not as strong as beijing, but with every city, and in the familiar environment, with much greater impunity。
I'm gonna open a hotpot when the epidemic gets better. It's not a young man。
"i finally got over it
It's like my parents' life."
I don't want to stay in the northeast. It's what i came up with in junior high。
My parents used to fight, they were introduced through grandma's colleagues and married after more than six months。
So from junior high, i decided to get out of this life -- take the same car every day, take the same road, and i'm bored and i can't imagine spending the rest of my life。
I love parents, but i'm afraid to be them. In the northeast, "stabilizing" is better than "working hard to break" to make you fit in here。
I went to wuhan university, from the cold areas of china to the stove. Actually, it's just a third volunteer. My mom wants me to go back to a local college, but i just want to get out of the northeast。
I'm too scared to look at it. We went back to college and had friends, and we sat together after lunch and thought there was really no place to go, except ktv and shopping, and then we sat for over two hours. I felt that it would be terrible to return, not only to work, but also to feel, even to entertain and live。
So i stayed in wuhan after graduation for more than four years, and i got laid off by the outbreak company, and i lost my job, and i didn't know what to do with the savings being consumed and looking for a job。
My cousins are in the northeast, so they compare them every year. Those years, my family lobbied me for a wheel-to-wheel exercise, which was like, “how tired a girl is out there and how nice it is to come back and look after you”. But the chance for me to finally compromise is to break up with the boyfriend who started to be with the university. Then i learned through my friends that he immediately announced a new girlfriend at the friends' circle, who was a native like him, and stayed in the local exam。
“he might want to stabilize himself”, that's what my friend told me to say. It would have been better to go to beijing together, because in this case i changed my plan to go from wuhan to beijing directly to home。
I went home for a year, and i didn't do anything, and i was going to take a teacher's pass and an exam every day, and i was trying to find something to do, and to keep my parents away from my job。
It turned out. Although this is not the same as the future i had thought about before, it is, after all, a decent opportunity to trade for it with my own efforts. On the other hand, as i grow older, i am not so repulsive about the life that i see at first sight。
Back home in the last two years, i found that the north-east was now quite different and that life that had been hoped for was no longer the same. While preserving a stable living environment, the northeast has slowly created more options for the young people remaining here。
For example, i know it's up to me to decide what to do, so i refused all the dates。
These choices are given to yourself, whether you are in the northeast or wherever you are, and if you want life to always be chosen, there will be no sense of drying up, no sense of looking at the end of life, and of recapitulating the life of a generation。
"all say northeast do itFrom mediaNo future
I don't believe it."
I went back to the northeast without a struggle of thought. It was a choice。
After graduation, i worked at an mcn agency in hangzhou, and this year i'm bringing the owner to stand alone, and i'm not happy at the company, so i quit。
After i left, i made a food-directing sign, and there's really no shortage of food in shanghai hang county, but homogeneity is serious. A lot of bloggers gather in new cities, and if you don't have a better idea, like ctrl+c, ctrl+v, i'm thinking of a different city。
On one occasion, when i wanted to eat my home-grown pot, i ordered a take-out, and it didn't taste good or expensive, i thought that night, why didn't i go back to the northeast to be a mediaman, the more excited i was, the more i decided to go home。
Many people have the impression that the media in the northeast are short-tempo videos, which may have something to do with the northeast's appearance, saying that it's simple, and that it's common. After all, the northeast is not as rich as the shanghai cafe, and it's hard to do a lot of art and art. But i always want to let others know that northeast culture is more than just the ones in the earthy video — a strange sense of responsibility that no one can bear to say that my family is bad, and i have a bit of a northeast fang。
Unlike other northeast parents, they don't want me to stay in the northeast, and they think there's something going on in a small three-line city that's not as good as going to the capital city。
Other kids ran away from the northeast, and my parents took me out of the northeast。
As you can see, the concept of some of the older northeasters has been updated, and the term northwards is a place where children can develop better. I think the change in attitudes and vision of parents is evidence of north-east movement。
I had a fight with my parents to get back to work in the northeast, and they didn't understand why i came back when i was doing well in hangzhou。
Now i'm back in the north-east for six months, making food from the media, years in the north-east, which is no worse than the outside world, and where few local bloggers are stationed, so much can be exploited。
I've been in touch with a lot of content creators in the northeast for the past six months, and i've found that you all have different northeast records, but the starting point is the same. Every city has less than satisfactory places, but there must be value in a city that attracts people to live。
After a while on the internet, cranes were able to buy a house for tens of thousands. I met a southern girl who had settled at the crane post when i was on the ground. I was surprised that i thought it would be possible to retain the local population in the north-east, but that it would be possible to attract outsiders。
That summer, me and this girl were having barbecues by the crane road, and the noise of opening beer bottles was ringing on that little street, with music from the square and ktv on the street. I asked her why you wanted to come to the northeast
She said it was because it was real。
So wherever you are, you're lucky to have a real life。
Interview: pp
