1. The matthew effect
The marta effect is in love: the stronger the stronger the weaker。
When you're willing to give more for yourself, to constantly improve yourself, your personal glamour is raised, thereby increasing personal appeal。
And when you're trying to be nice to each other, you're flattering each other, and you're going to be "depreciating."
The other side, however, continued to add value in the process。
Interruptive enhancements
In emotional terms, the random incentive system is very applicable. Every time he asks you to go out, you have to answer his request, and for a long time, he will find it unchallenging to meet you, and he will give you respite。
But every time you don't go out, he'll just give up, and it's only randomly “commit” that he can't figure out, he can't feel it, he'll ask you out every time he asks you out, and he'll feel fresh。
The smartest way to tame is to keep him from you forever
Romeo and juliet effect
The more resistance there is, the more they love each other。
4. The gourge effect
Why are humans so new and obnoxious? This is reflected in many mammals. It is also inevitable that human beings, as superior mammals, will retain this trace, so that everyone's self-discipline and sense of responsibility is particularly important at this time。
5. Lead effect
The first time a man and a woman met, the impression was the most profound. When you're well-dressed, you'll give the other side a very fine impression。
Even if you don't get dressed often, this stereotype will be in each other's minds for a long time。
So, the first part of the feeling is directly determined, and the other side has an impression of you as a whole。
6. Bridging effect
Maybe you've always felt that for a moment, in a certain scene, you suddenly moved a person who doesn't feel at all in a day, and you thought you liked each other, and then you did countless things to suit yourself。
In fact, this may be the environment at the time, causing physical tension and an acceleration of the heart rate, so that you can attribute this to the heart of the people around you, but “heart move” does not mean “like”。
7. Relationship compensation response
People are always the first to notice those who like themselves. A significant part of the group of “duplicity” is attributed to the “love compensation effect”。
Human beings are always interested in those who have a crush on themselves, and when a person shows a tendency to like you, and as long as his own value is satisfactory, you are unwittingly looking for the advantage of the other, and you are unwittingly and easily fond of the other。
Exposure effects
The exposure effect is also called the multi-vision effect, which means that people tend to prefer what they know。
Social psychology also refers to this effect as “know the law”。
Simply put, it's the more people you meet, the more you like。
9. Southern wind effect
The southern wind effect is also known as the warmer effect, which means that in human relationships, gentle communication and positive ways of living together can make people feel more comfortable and decent, with better positive effects。
In love, couples need to communicate with each other in warmth and solidarity. If one side blows like the north wind, it will only keep the other side tighter and not let go. Only a gentle blow like the southern wind can make the other half safe and open up。
10. Allenson effect
The allenson effect is the psychological phenomenon that leads to a gradual positive attitude as incentives increase。
And in love, when you are with the other half, do not exaggerate and praise, but rather do so in a way that combines praise and denigration, so that you may make the compliment more effective。
11. Franklin effect
The franklin effect is that the best way to get people to like you is not to help them, to be nice to them, but to get them to help you out。
Because it's when they help you that they need it. At this point in time, it is easy for him to create a feeling of affection and dependence on you, and it is easy for your relationship to go further。
12. Homogenous effects
The homogeneity effect is that people are born to prefer to remain close to those who have a high degree of similarities with themselves, that is, the more likely they are to attract each other。
It's used in love: for the best. If you want someone to like you, the best way to do it is to vote for it, talk to ta about something that is related to ta's hobby, and get closer to each other through interaction and interaction。
13. Dark effect
The dark effect is that couples are dating in a dark spot and each other are less alert because they can't see each other's faces。
In such cases, the likelihood of intimacy is much higher than in brighter locations。
