You're trying to make money, but you can't get out of debt
The more you turn around, the more blind you get, the deeper you get, the more you hit the wall
It's not you who can't, it's you who can't find the right way。
There are a lot of ordinary people who are carrying the weight of life in silence:
Mortgages, car loans, credit cards, internet mortgages, monthly fixed bills are suffocating, income cannot keep up with expenses, unemployment, salary cuts, family changes, business failures, and debt distress。
During the day, he was struggling to make money, and at night he fell into an inexhaustible insomnia, self-doubt, feeling that he could not see the end of his life, trying to find his way, trying to give up and leaving his family behind, struggling to live in reality。
Too many people panic in the low valley, rushing to poverty, rushing to the end, exhausting their energy and debt and pushing themselves to the brink of collapse。
What we often say about life's dilemmas is precisely the wisdom of the world in response to the gossip of elysium, which is by no means superstitious. It is understood only in the light of traditional cultural traditions, so as to awaken all those who are in the low valleys and who are in the middle of debt: trapped in the extreme, quiet, and doing the right thing, can slowly emerge from the dilemma, stabilize their lives and turn their backs。
The whole text, which does not speak the language, which is unbelievably superstitious, which does not fill the chicken soup, is full of big words and big truths. It covers the real situation of ordinary people who pay their debts, resist pressure, cross the valley, calms down their internal consumption and points their way, guides their emotions and gives them a way to practice。
A large proportion of ordinary people now experience debt stress, life deprivation, not an individual, but a common struggle in all walks of life。
People who work hard, are paid a fixed salary, lose their daily expenses, repay their loans on time, have almost no balance of any money, and immediately find themselves in financial liquidity difficulties in the event of sudden-onset situations such as illness and unemployment
People who fail to start a business, lose their wages in the workplace, owe their next debt, are pushed into daily distress, pressured by life, are afraid to socialize, rest, live in stress and guilt all day long
People who are dedicated and do what they want, who have never ventured, who are far away, are trapped in reality, who are not rewarded for their efforts, who are not rewarded for what they have done, and who have long fallen into a confused, self-denial mood。
People are struggling to get out of the valley, pay off their debts and live a steady life。
The more eager to get out of trouble, the easier it is to make mistakes:
In order to make money quickly, blindness and the wind side, random investment, frequent troughs, and, lastly, loss of blood
In order to relieve the immediate pressure, the debt snowballs are rolled up by borrowing and breaking the east wall
The mentality has collapsed completely, lying flat, self-serving, passively living, completely losing the air。
Finally, it became clear that rather than breaking the rules, the desperate and eagerness to achieve results had led to deeper dilemmas, retreating and moving forward。
As a result, many complain of life being too difficult and of unfair, and in fact, life is the norm。
The story of elysium is that there is only one thing at the heart of the story: a person who wants to live in a world where he is trapped, trapped and left to die。
It's not about teaching people to take their lives, spoil them, compromise, but about telling the simplest truth about survival:
All the valleys of life are an experience; all the dilemmas are a practice。
When a man is in good shape, he seems to be in good shape, and he is easily impulsive; and when he is in adversity, he seems helpless, and he hides the opportunity to grow up。
The vast majority of the people in debt distress have done the wrong thing in the valley: they are in a state of confusion, then panic, and they move blindly。
This is also the underlying reason why many people are getting harder and harder。
Here, the true story of a single person around us is also a true microcosm of countless debtors。
An ordinary worker, who had previously set up a business with the wind, not only lost all savings, but also owed more than 200,000 debts and fell from a secure life to the bottom of life overnight。
After the debt, he went into total panic, went to work during the day, stayed up late in the night, made a blind investment, tried to make quick money to pay off the debt, and in a short period of six months, not only did he not earn money, but he suffered losses, was under stress until he slept all night, fell into psychological breakdown several times, and even had a wish to give up。
During that time, he was completely unbalanced, hasty, anxious, paranoid, desperate to turn around, pay off his debts immediately, do his job, be unsustainably, and force himself to despair。
He then realized that he had stopped all blindness, remained calm and focused only on one thing: keeping his job, keeping up with his money, managing his debt rationally, putting an end to all useless socializations, not gambling, moving forward one by one。
No longer fantasies to turn around overnight, no longer falling into ineffectual internal consumption, making money every day, making rational repayments, holding on to life, calming minds and acting calmly。
In a short period of two years, he had paid off most of his debt, his life had gradually been put back on track, and the entire population had become so secure that he was out of his misery。
To read here, all those who are in the low valley and who are ahead of their debts must understand this critical reversal:
It's not the outside world that's trapped you, it's the impatience, the irritation, the internal consumption。
It is not that there is no way out of the valley, but rather that you are determined to flee quickly, in a state of discomfort, in a state of uncertainty, in a state of impatience and impatience, in order that you may find no way out。
The core of the gossip is never external, not shortcuts, not luck, but to hold on to one's heart, to stop internal consumption, to stay calm and to focus on one thing。
To put it simply, the only way to go is to get to the point where people are desperate and trapped, and they don't have to make a scene。
The lower the valley, the less the mess; the harder it is, the more the heart falls。
The more urgent it is, the easier it is to make mistakes; the more chaotic it is, the easier it is to get desperate; and the easier it is to lose。
In combination with the wisdom of the world, to all ordinary people who are in debt, in valleys and under pressure, the five are in the right direction, not empty, not chicken soup, in a practical way, and can go through the valley slowly:
First, you're stuck, you're stuck, you're on your way
At the bottom of the valley, the mind always comes first。
It is not self-denial, self-defeating, long-term self-inflicted, self-defeating, and self-dividing because of immediate indebtedness。
A time of difficulty does not mean a lifetime of mediocrity; a time of debt does not mean a lifetime of hopelessness。
Life is low, debt pressure is just a part of life, not the end, much less the definition of your whole life。
Do not be anxious, do not be lost, do not torture yourself, accept the present situation, accept the imperfect reality, have a steady heart, and have a good mind, so that the road can be opened。
Second: stop blinding and abandon all short-run fantasy
This is one of the most critical, central things to do。
All of these valleys are blinding, consuming themselves and exacerbating the current plight。
There is no one-night wealth, there is no quick landing, and there are no easy ways to go without effort, and all ideas for quick money and shortcuts can eventually be followed and exacerbated。
The blind resignations, the emptying of their homes and their investment, their sideworks and their mortgages are all crooked and desperate。
There is no illusions, no impulsiveness, no impulsiveness, no impulsiveness, no debauchery, no devious thinking, no moving forward on the ground, and the path of ordinary people is the most reliable。
Three: focus on what's going on, right now, keep moving
It is enough that people get to the point where they don't have to ask for anything, and they don't have to do anything。
(b) to work in a stable environment, to remain firmly committed to the main sector, to be responsible and empowered, to steadily increase income and to be able to survive
In the absence of a job for the time being, find a job that is secure and secure, without selectivity or favour, in order to earn a living or develop
To pay debts, to settle all arrears in a rational manner, to combine their own income and to make a reasonable repayment plan that does not escape, does not spoil or confront them positively。
Focusing all of our energies on one thing, not dispersing, not agitating, not giving up, will result in qualitative changes, and life will improve slowly。
Four: keep the bottom line safe, keep it safe
At the bottom of the valley, even if it is difficult and embarrassing, it is necessary to hold the bottom line and maintain integrity。
Debts are paid for, by virtue of the law, not in bad faith, not in bad faith, not to hide, not to transfer property, not to evade the obligation to pay。
Temporary difficulties are an objective reality, and it is the human personality and credibility that are at the root of the future。
Even if only a small amount of monthly arrears were to be repaid, it would be necessary to do what it takes, to face it, to be honest, to stand up for it, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest, and to be honest, and to have a day。
Number five: if you get through the valley, it's the sun
Life is a rise and fall, there is no valley forever, and there is no dilemma。
All the hardships, all the experiences of ordinary people, all the sufferings of the valleys, are paving the way for a secure life from the past。
You just have to be human, to do what you want, to be calm, to take care of yourself, not to give up, not to let up, not to let go, not to be passive, to get through what's ahead of you, to hold on to your heart, to move forward steadily, to accumulate and change slowly, and to live in a way that will lead to a better life。
None of us in this life has had a smooth journey, and everyone has had a difficult time。
Many ordinary people are now burdened and held hostage by debt, and life is difficult and difficult, but never desperate。
The wisdom left behind by my ancestors was never fatalism, but the most resounding truth:
Landlord, don't worry。
Living outside is not a terrible dilemma. Self-consumption and self-indulgentness are the real cage。
It is the best way to break the path without internal consumption, without impatience, without blindness, without giving up, without setting your heart like a mountain and on the ground。
Don't feel hopeless. Don't feel stuck in your life. All winters will pass. All kinds of trouble will break out。
It is only a matter of time before you give yourself back a little bit of what you have endured, to pay off your debts and to get out of the valley。
There is no need to complain, no need to be anxious, no need to torture yourself, no need to embrace the present, no need to focus on the way forward, and no need to turn the wind around and get back together。
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