The answer is, don't do anything wrong
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Don't think i'm a piece of crap. Those moments of life that are recurring are precisely hidden in these “not so good, but still do”。
You see, some people complain about bad work, family problems, anxiety about income, problems with their children, but you let him change his way. He said he wasn't well, but he died in this uncomfortable place. Why? For so long, it became his “comfort zone”. Such suffering is more reassuring to him than the unknown。
People are sometimes strange, not in pursuit of happiness, but in their “habitation”。
So i'm getting the feeling that what's really missing in life is not a success study, but a “denial guide”. It doesn't have to teach you how to win. It should tell you which pits, if you step in, they're all chronic。
For example, things that seem to be “right”: winning awards, working hard, pushing hard to a so-called stable path. On the surface, it appears to be an upward route, and in many cases, at great long-term cost, in exchange for a short-term certainty. You think you're making money, but you're just using credit cards to overdraft yourself。
To be clear, it is an imbalance in the output ratio of inputs。
And, for example, many feel that it is the “lowest risk” option to test for a stable job. But is that true? When the environment changes and you're replaced, you'll find you only have three cents of that acre。
You're not incompetent, you're locked in for a long time. It's like a guy who's been screwin' on a water line, hitting' up to the end, leaving that line without even taking any other tools. You see, the high-level mechanics at the big factory, once it's optimized, he can't even spread a pancakes
That's the real risk... That you can't adapt to change without fear of change。
What do you mean? Many roads are not impossible, but are too costly and too risk-resistant. In most cases, the roads we encounter are costly, and it is wisdom to avoid those that are not。
The problem, however, is that many people are not “selecting this path” at all, but are pushed up and walking, and are used to it and afraid to come down. The last thing i did was to fall from the top and fall badly。
Just like the elephant that was chained up in the zoo. Growing up, it's actually easy to break, but it's tired of trying. It's used to it。
There's a rule in the game called "no regrets" and most people are "falls or regrets". What if you say life is like a chess game and you don't regret it? Walking, regretting, regretting, leaving responsibility behind. It's the environment, it's what others suggest, it's the problem of luck — it's not about itself。
It's too hard, too painful to admit that “it was my choice and i was wrong”。
But if you don't, it will never change. It's a "recognition"
There's another one that's more interesting. "i'm going to turn back." but you told him to study the most basic things, like compound interest, and he couldn't even search. It's like "making money" that happens when you think too much. It's always easier to talk than to bow。
The world is actually fair. You don't study patterns, you're beaten; you don't study hearts, you're tricked。
The so-called "the way of heaven" is no more than a rule; so-called "the way of the earth" is nothing more than a human heart. One decides how you make money, one decides how you get harvested。
So now i'm more concerned about one thing: will this thing that i'm doing become, one day, a pit that i regret but that i can't get out of
If the answer is “may”, then try not to start。
Don't rush to do the right thing. Learn to do the wrong thing. Many times, you're not trying too hard, you're working hard, and you're eating yourself slowly。
Such an effort, like an adult
