# my son is old #
Today is 30 years old, and it is the most important holiday of the year。
Taking advantage of spring holidays, family and friends, adults and children are reunited, drinking and dancing。
Eating has always been a traditional culture in china, and it is essential to gather together for a good meal, but if children do not understand some basic table rules and manners at this time, they will be disgraceful to their parents。
And, of course, there's a lot of people who say, "how can there be so many boxes to eat to relax?"
These days, my classmates came back from the city to spend their new year at their parents' house, and we haven't seen each other for a long time。
My specialty, sugary ribs, red oil, dry fragrance and sweet acid, conquers the appetite of the fellow students。
The child eats so good that he puts a plate of sugary ribs in front of himself and proclaims "sovereignty": "i love it, it's good, you can't eat it."
My son wants to eat too, and his parents talk softly about the baby and give his brother a piece of the ribs, but the kid doesn't look at himself, and he talks about it. "i'm not eating enough!"
My classmates were a bit embarrassed, but her husband laughed, started praising me for good cooking, and said how his son chose to eat, and didn't think he was so fond of my cooking。
Confucius teaches his son, "no manners, no foundation." a person cannot stand in society without being polite。
While eating is a small matter, it reflects a person's basic state of mind。
Such attitudes and behaviours should be nurtured from an early age and made a good habit for children to grow up gracefully。
Let table rituals become children's daily, and when they become part of a child, they become an instinctive reaction like breathing。
Children should learn the table manners
1. Every meal of gratitude
Enjoying every meal with a heart of gratitude。
Japan's best-selling writer, kokura, wrote in his book, "a table gift for life:
The most important part of the japanese table protocol is the gratitude for life。
Why does it start at the japanese table with the words, "i've got it" and end with the words, "thank you for your hospitality"
All the food is alive, and we have received its life to survive, so our gratitude goes through。
In fact, thanksgiving is a truly decent table protocol for the world。
This kind of gratitude includes food for our nutrients and energy, as well as for our hard-earned family
A sense of gratitude should be passed on as a family culture。
2. First you enter, first you move chopsticks
The university's cloud: "it's the end of things, the end of things, the beginning of things, the order of things."
The respect of the elderly is also reflected in the table manner, and it is not for the elders to eat before they have taken their seats and chopsticks。
When the parents hand over the bowl to the child, the child should bring it to him with both hands, showing respect for the elders。
To the traditional virtues of the chinese nation, parents are required to demonstrate when their children are young, to invite their elders to dinner and to serve them first。
Sit up straight and stay in a good position
At the table, the child is to sit up straight and remain in a strong position. This is not only good-looking, it is also beneficial for children to digest。
When eating, the child is given a bowl, a bowl and chopsticks, while also being careful about the legs and the legs。
Don't knock or shout while eating. Wow
Many children have a bad habit of banging chopsticks when they are bored and not pointing chopsticks at others. And it's rude to knock on chopsticks or shout at dinner, and it's offensive。
Particular attention is paid to the need to speak when food is full of mouths, in order to prevent food from being sprayed without gifts, unsanitary and convulsion。
5. Avoid flipping through the disc
You have to get close to your own food basket, and remember to roll all over the dishes, and pick up the good food and leave it with bad food。
It would also be selfish to allow children to take advantage of their own food when they were confronted with good food。
Do not make as much noise as possible at dinner
The most unbearable no. 1 of the table manners is eating and snuffing..
Even some netizens say they want to beat people up when they hear it。
Try to keep your mouth shut while teaching your children to chew, not to snuff, wait patiently for the natural cool when you drink soup, not to breathe quickly to cool the soup, or to make the noise of the soup。
Seven. Don't do anything else while eating
Recently read a book, living well, mr. Shinohara, a 105-year-old, was asked, “what is a family?” he said:
"the family is the family that eats together."
The time spent eating was also the time of the family, the perfect time for children to communicate and share with their parents, and that time must be valued。
Remind the children to concentrate on eating. It is not possible to eat while doing other things, to play with toys, to watch television, to watch mobile phones, etc., and to try to create a quiet environment when eating。
8 - expression of thanks to the food preparers
In new year, the elders worked hard to prepare a table of tea for the year。
So, when you teach your kids to eat, it's delicious. After eating, thank those who prepare food。
There are other impolite acts that parents must inform their children。
It is best not to leave the table after dinner, waiting for others to finish, but to leave first, to say hello: "i'm ready and you eat."
After dinner, help clean tables, pack chopsticks or help wash dishes。
11. Do not go over others to pick up food, or to pick up food from others ' plates。
12. Don't stick chopsticks on food。
Don't put the food out again。
14. Unpredictable behaviour during meals, such as coughing, sneezing and sneezing should be single-handedly directed towards the side of no one, and eating of teeth and nasals should be blocked with napkins or hands so as not to affect the appetite of other guests present。
No waste of food, no gain。
16. Salutes
Having dinner together during the year, parents can encourage their children to drink to their elders with drinks or water, and to say something like “happy new year, healthy”。
Don't despise people for their table manners
And the most important one must also be told to the child that if the person who eats with you violates any of the above, even if he has not done anything right, don't take it personally and ignore it, because it is the greatest indecency if you are to be despised by the table manners。
At the end
In the end, why is the table manner important
Because it's like a mirror to you. It's like a mirror to you。
When children are told its importance, and their table manners are developed to make them more decent, they are actually looking at their way of life and education。
So, the first step towards a better life begins with opening it。
