The child is a man's book and a mirror
Parents always expect a better communication with their children during the holidays, for example. Is that possible?
In the opinion of the emotional expert, the child is an adult and will never be finished. Parents should grow up in tandem with their children and should not simply wait for leave. A family can communicate
Harmony is essential. An enviable family does not possess much wealth, good material conditions are far from sufficient, and a good heart is important. A good psychological environment is the cradle of the child's mental and physical well-being and the happiness of the child throughout his or her life。
Is it possible to communicate with children on a regular basis? Communication is based on the child's biological and mental age of interest. Some parents consider the child's questions to be childish and debatable. In fact, children cannot distinguish between reality and imagination, ideals and illusions. Psychological studies have found that only 18 per cent of six-year-olds can distinguish between reality and fantasy; 90 per cent of nine-year-olds can understand whether the story is made up or true; and 11-year-olds can begin to understand honesty from a new perspective。
The child is a mirror for adults, and he can reflect the success of your education and the failure of your education. Parents must therefore focus on communicating with their children, and communication must be done invisiblely in daily drops and drops。
What do you care about communicating with pre-school children?
Information experts believe that the safety needs of children aged 0-6 are the main ones. Children need the warmth of their parents, who at this age are primarily concerned with their life and health. If a child suffers from brain trauma and malnutrition at a young age, it has an impact on his/her life。
However, parents are the first teachers of the child, so they cannot remain above them alone. Until the age of three, the child's harmonious psychological attitudes and healthy personality form the golden period. Parents teach their children everything they say, for example, about visitors or telephone calls they don't like, even when they say "i'm not at home", which you don't know, but you don't know, and it's not right that they should watch the children's channels and the parents and children should be different。
Before the age of one year (especially between 7 and 9 months), parents are required to train their children to climb. This is an exercise in the sense and ability of the child, in the sense that poor education affects the child's attention, how dynamic it is, and even how the child is portrayed, creating a sense of inferiority。
In the field of moral education, the kindergarten's young friends are mainly trained in groupization, sharing the pleasures of games and food with them. Kids are now one-child children, self-centred, lacking independence and willlessness, but parents often teach them this way: "he beats you, you beat him, and our children don't lose." in fact, early childhood cooperation capacity
Development was more important than competitiveness, and its impact on children's future careers was significant。
What's the point of communicating when kids go to primary school?
In the opinion of the media, it is true that parents in the united arab emirates are first concerned with their children's studies, but some parents believe that this will create dependency. In fact, china's cultural education is deep and hard
However, china's square word "from kindergarten to primary school, the concept of study is relatively new, so parents have to go to school with each other and write their homework. Moreover, learning is not only taught by teachers, but also encourages children to ask their classmates and exchange views with their children. Several children of the same age group start working after school and such group studies are worth promoting。
Secondly, care must be taken of the children's situation in school (with teachers, with classmates) and of the children's low-life, positive, happy inertia. Talk to children about interesting things that happen in school, and do things that are of interest to children, such as taking them to technology fairs, watching children's plays, instead of shopping at malls, shopping in stock markets. In the field of moral education, primary school pupils are mainly educated in the right and the wrong. Parents are expected to lead by example, be patient, be less confused, for example, when the child falls by accident, and some of the parents go on their feet and say it was the fault of the place. It's obviously not right. It's going to be too human. It is not the notion that leads to the upbringing of a child, which is not to be treated in a violent manner, nor is it to be tedious。
In the non-education process, there are things that parents are right and right, but the children are upset?
In the opinion of the intelligence expert, oralism is enough, so don't press for something deep inside the child's soul; to allow the child to be in doubt, there are different views. Some parents do this
It's kind of a mistake -- "how many times have i told you, how many times have you done it?" -- a child is a child, not a grown-up, not just a word, and an adult is not a saint and will not be remembered once。
What should parents take care of when they give their pupils to the elderly on vacation?
In china as a whole, intelligence experts believe that it is positive for young parents to bring their children with them because of their work. The elderly have some experience with their children and are careful and patient, but are unable to play games with them because of the weakness of the old body and the inability to satisfy the child's moving nature. In the summer, if necessary, the children should be taken for swimming, skating in the winter, not just sitting at home watching tv, and then preparing a big meal for the children。
With regard to the supervision of children's work, although older persons are no longer able to provide guidance to children, parents can buy some time off to synchronize their work。
The most disturbing thing for parents is that older people are more comfortable with their children, and in fact, whether they are young parents or grandparents, they have to change the notion that frustration education is a vitamin that children grow up with if they have rational family members and teachers who love them
Children are the happiest of all。
What do you care about communication in high school?
When a child is little, the parents and the teachers may take it as a message, but when it comes to adolescence, it changes a lot
Children often fight. This is the second time in life, and the storm of youth is a long time. These changes have led the child to resist, and the mother has asked the child to put on a coat and the child immediately goes, "no! No! " . On the contrary, a partner came in and said, "let's go with a coat."。
Mental health education in adolescence is more important than education in cultural knowledge, because children at this time, whose psychological growth lags behind biological development, whose logic, judgement, frustration, self-regulation, self-control, etc. Are far from adequate, and when children are more willing to approach society, sometimes their impulses lead to lifelong grief. By way of example, the secondary school student a sat at the bridge, then came to the middle school student b, didn't know each other, looked at the eye a, looked at the eye a, looked at the eye a, "indulgently, come with me" and then went into a alley with the a, and four boys came out with the e, and it was bad, and they pulled out a knife and one of them got away. Unfortunately, it happened to be stuck in a heart position, and then the child died. The reason for the investigation is because you looked at me and i looked at you。
Children refuse to talk to their parents.
In the opinion of the emotional experts, it's impossible for a child of puberty, if his parents say "talk to you". Parents pay double attention, learn to communicate in motion, when children like to play, travel, go out with their children, see nature, and know what they think in these dynamics. I'm sorry.
What do we do?
In the field of moral and moral education, adolescents are mainly taught about social ethics and ethics. Parents then need deeper affection, love and care, more complex than simple condemnation and spending。
Parents cannot follow and stare at children all day long. The measure of self-management for children is moral education. This has a long history in our country, such as a mother-in-law stabbing, teaching a good nation。
It is also very important that parents pay attention to the problems of dating children. Some parents consider that the child has made friends that are different from others and refuse to let friends of the child out of the house, believing that this would prevent the child from interacting with an undesirable juvenile. In fact, by inviting a child's friend to observe the child in his own perspective, he can learn more about the child's friend's family members, his specialties, his psychological world, his aesthetics and even the spread of his bad habits, otherwise his eyes are dark and his whips are too long。
