The family is the root and the children are the leaves, the branches and the fruits。
It's only when it's deep, it's strong, it's developed, it's full of fruit。
The philosopher plato said:
“where a man has been educated from an early age to guide him and decide where he will go.”
This is what people do when they grow up in what kind of family they do。
What causes parents to grow in the soil of education during the first half of their lives, and what consequences they will have on their children in the second half of their lives。
The family is the first school for the child and the parents are the first teachers for the child。
Each tree is grown by sunlight and moisture
Every good child is backed up by parents。
These nine concepts of family education recommended by the people's daily are worth reading by all parents。
01
Parents are the primary responsibility of family education. People
02
Rejection of any form of domestic violence
Harvard university has done a study that shows:
The average iq of children who are regularly beaten is 20 per cent lower than that of children who have not been beaten。
This is one of the great harms that domestic violence causes to children。
It will always be recalled that the bottom line of family education begins with the rejection of violence。
03
Respect for and protection of the human dignity of the child
The psychologist, li peng, has studied thousands of crimes and has concluded:
“children's problems are often created by adults。
Every psychological or behavioural problem of the child is related to the behaviour of the parents and to the manner in which the parents are educated.”
04
Give the child the right to choose
The poet, gibron, has a poetic thought:
"your children are not your children. They are children born of the desire of life for themselves。
They came to this world by you, but not by you. They are beside you, but they do not belong to you。
You can give them your love, not your idea, because they have their own ideas。
You can protect their bodies, not their souls, because their souls belong to tomorrow.”
05
Psychological support is more important than material support
06
Personality determines the fate of the child
07
Be good at discovering the virtues of a child
These three words are often said to children and are key to family education:
In my heart, you are always the best。
2. Whether it is a success or a failure, you are the best。
I'm proud of you。
08
He taught himself and taught himself
The educator, hamlinsky, said:
Every moment you see a child, you see yourself; you educate a child, that is, you educate yourself and you test yourself。
We're right to be parents. Children are right。
09
Don't let your children realize your dreams
Everyone's life is unique, and children are not the personal effects of their parents。
In the life of the child, parents should make the light and leave the rest to the child。
As liu yu said in his letter to her daughter:
"you want to be a banker on wall street, work hard, but if you just want to be a baker, that's fine, and if you want to be in politics, mom will support it."
