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Instead of pursuing a fixed state, it would be better to allow rivalry and contradictions to coexist. Love is strong and calm is sustainable。
It's like you can't drink without boiling, but you can't drink in boiling. It's better to be strong before it boils down before you taste the light。
When you come up, there's no trace of water, no taste, no suspicion. Is love like that? When added to the frequency of self-inflicted collisions, the heart is easily de-orbited seven or eight times。
So many middle-aged people seem to be on the brink of danger, essentially creating a strong self-deprivation, which in turn validates their existenceism。
It is not necessarily the attraction of a partner that is not sufficiently attractive, but rather the human nature that cannot be underestimated or overestimated, and that many people who spend a long time with one person do not really have responsibilities, subtly internalization, irritate themselves, so they ask for something, and then they do something。
It does not judge morality, but rather it discovers patterns. When people are curious and young, the main line is set to see more people, to experience more, not to try to omit, and not to be conceited. Even love experienced in the strongest and most deprived times is a precious asset. You can use this mirror of others, one by one, one by one, to see your different faces, and then to update your experience and perception of love。
Perhaps this process will find that the demand for love at different stages is also changing dynamically. At the beginning of naivety and lack of emotional experience, the truest, most instinctive emotions are often given, but they are also interwoven with great self-inflictedness and extreme sincerity and selfishness。
With possession, deprivation, a sense of demand, and less relaxed, every move of others has moved you with the tide, and as the instincts go out, they become a shadow。
When they grow older, they begin to be informed and interesting, and then they jump into the gratitude stream with less enthusiasm, replacing it with calm, comfort, and other topics of life, a kind of existence that no longer values love too much, but also operates with heart。
This is a time of daily boiling and daily burning, because love has changed in the weight of life, in the upper dimension, in the pursuit of more content and scope, in the love of too much mud, it will take much of the human heart, energy and thus the opportunity to develop other life experiences。
It is a rule that different stages of love can be alienated into different forms, but there is a consistent logic that it cannot always occupy the first place in your life, and that it exists essentially as a concession。
Love and love end up trying to find you, see you, and then you don't have to rush to define love, characterize it, lock it to death。
It had the flexibility and tension to accept whatever it was, most importantly, you know what you're doing, you don't lose yourself, you can see yourself。
A growing human being is certainly not so extreme as to look at the problem from the perspective of development, and they will update their perception of love with the thickness of life and not attempt to sum up in one state。
There are many things about love, and it is because of the different experiences of love that come from different human beings, the way people want to love, the way they feel, the way they pass, the way they become, the way they become。
Peace, strength, is a precious experience of life, of thinking about what i get from this love, of what i can grow, of what i can find, of what i can find, of what i can think, of what love is, of what i am。
There is, in my opinion, no single conclusion as to whether this perception of different concentrations can be obtained from one person or from another。
But loyalty is the bottom line of our love, and then people return when they have the greatest curiosity and the best sense of mind, and when they feel different love in different people, you see, eat, experience, and then choose someone to be with。
It means knowing the true nature of love, not being completely independent of human nature, not being entirely as subjective as literature describes it, and also being the self-perception of ordinary people in the world, with all the shortcomings and shortcomings, but being caught in love with a light that makes each other so different, so special and so exclusive。
And then after the shadow, you'll be more understanding, less blameful, less reluctant, and then you'll return to the shadows, see the good of each other, see the charms of one another, and gain more in interaction。
