We've been living in civil society for thousands of years, and we've never been in vain. On march 20th, the agricultural calendar was the day of the birth of the mother of a family member. In the minds of the older generation, it was a good day for the good, for the peace, for the good, for the good and for the care of the family。
It's my birthday
The rules of this day deserve to be borne in mind, whether they are looking forward to the importation, the family and the children of the elderly. Many people only know what to pray for, but they do not know what to avoid during the day and what to look at at at night, and they miss the good times of naf。
Today, with the most tangible words, the mother-in-law's birth day 3 taboos and 2 p. M. Attention is made clear. Each one has a statement, makes sense, does not bend around, makes no sense, remembers the elders, the lovers, the whole family follows the rules, and has a year of good luck and happiness。
First of all, talk to everyone: "who is the protector of the delivery mother?"
Let's get to the bottom of this, let's start with the rules before we hear the fog。
In the folk faith, the mother-in-law is also known as the mother-in-law, who is the god of mercy and compassion dedicated to the safety of women during pregnancy, the smooth birth of children, the healthy growth of children, and the family. Since ancient times, when medical care was limited, women were at high risk of giving birth and children were vulnerable to disorder, the people had placed their most genuine expectations on the delivery mothers。
The day of the birth of march 20th became one of the most appropriate days of the year to pray for the welfare of the family. This day is a day of good deeds, of soft mouths, of clean houses, of peace, not of superstition, but of fear of the peace of the family and of the promise of a good life。
Many people think these old customs are outdated, but they are not. The rules that we are now living in a busy, stressful and troubled environment are essentially a reminder of how to keep our tempers, hold our tempers, be kind to our families, stay clean, home and peace, and what is natural。
Two, three taboos in the daytime
All day long, the most important thing is not to be happy, not to be angry, not to spoil the atmosphere, but to do nothing during the day。
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The first is also the most important: no matter what happens, don't argue, don't fall, don't say anything。
Don't talk to each other about small things, don't quarrel with your wife-in-law, don't argue with anyone else. Old people used to say that mothers were the most happy and the most annoying. When everyone's quarrelling, the best of luck will be broken up and taken away。
It's very real now. At the beginning of the spring and summer, it was a good day to pray for happiness, and the whole family was in a bad mood and not a happy day。
Step back from the sky, the day is more soft talk, more smiley face, more tolerance, peace and peace in the home, than anything. That's the surest way to do this。
B: don't talk so bad. Good words bring good luck. Gas
Many people don't care what they say, complain and talk, and this day they have to shut up。
Negative words such as “bad luck” and “no hope” and harsh words to families, children and children are being held back. When people talk about “open air” and talk about it in good days, they are willing to push good luck out。
There is no need for us to say such beautiful things, as long as there is peace, health, well-being, happiness and a warmer atmosphere in the family without complaining, scolding, making it difficult to hear。
And the respite of the mouth is that it is for its own good, and it is in good words that the days will pass。
No. 3: don't pour water and trash. Don't throw any luck out
This article is the most easily ignored detail in many families and is of particular importance in the old discourse。
On 20 march, during the day, every effort was made not to pour any dirty water at the gates, in the yard or in the front of the house, nor to dump any garbage at the gates or at the side of the road. The old people say that the water belt is angry, the garbage belt is obstinate, and the family's fortunes are washed away and dirty。
It makes perfect sense in real life. In the spring, temperatures rise, dirty water is prone to smelts, mosquitoes and litter is unsanitary and affects the cleaning of the doorway. It's a clean home, it's a comfort, and it's a good place。
I'm going to clean up and dispose of the garbage until the evening. I'm going to pack it up, and i'm not going to waste the day。
Three, two bets at night. You must keep your memory in mind
In the daytime, the taboos are avoided, and two little things are more important at night. It's not a problem, everyone can do it。
Number one: try not to come back after dark, not to be late, and the family is the safest at home
In particular, the rule is that on march 20, when it is dark, no one should wander around, and that family should come home as early as possible and not stay out too late。
In particular, there are pregnant women, children and elderly persons who are in poor health, who must return home early and remain at home. It is the common saying that on the night of the birth, the blessing is not happy, and the family is there, so that it can stay at home; without one, there is no place to rest。
From a realistic perspective, late spring nights are cold, cold and cold, and there are many people out there who are not safe at home. It was better than anything to throw out unnecessary parties, get paid, go home early, talk to their families, eat something warm, be quiet。
Number two: clean up before bed, be nicer than any ritual
Without a complicated ritual, without a penny, without a few minutes to do two little things before bedtime。
First of all, clean up the house: clean up the floor, wipe the table, clean up the mess, open the window, and clear the house. A clean home is the best place for good。
The second thing is, calm down and pray in your heart. There is no formality, but real hope: to have a healthy family, peace and security, to have a good child, to have a good life, to have a family and to have a good life。
Being sincere is more important than anything else, and being kind and grateful is the best respect for the delivery lady. Sleeping in a calm and peaceful mood, this evening enjoyed a good sleep, and the next day was in good spirits all day。
Four, do these little things, you don't have to pay for them
In addition to the taboos and concerns above, i would like to share with you a few small things that are easy for everyone to do that day。
On the same day, you can prepare some red dates, peanuts, lotions and cuisine, which are common in the home, and you can cook a porridge and water, with a sense of happiness, well-being and sunctuation, and at the end of the spring。
This day is also a day for doing a little bit more: helping people around us, saying thank you to service people, not wasting food, caring for little lives around them. As the old saying goes, jae-sun's house will be celebrated. Real luck always comes from everyday goodwill。
There is no need to go to the temple and there is no need to go to the temple. The best and most sincere prayers are to keep their lives at home, to take care of their families and to keep their tempers in place。
The last words
In fact, these old rules and customs that we talked about today are never bound by any kind of framework。
It is essentially an ancestral wisdom of life: a reminder of the importance that we must give to the family, to the peace, to the temper, to the clean, to the good。
How's it going? It's never out there in the queue, but it's warm at home. A family that does not quarrel, is not angry, is safe and secure and is submissive is its greatest blessing。
May every family live in peace on the 20th of march of the year, and the elderly and their children are healthy and well-behaved。
Are you still following these old rules? What are the different birth practices around you? We'd like to talk about it in the comment area, so we can keep it a secret。
