In a world of emotion, there is no greater confusion than to guess the other。
Particularly for married women, their emotional expressions tend to be more subtle and complex. They need to think about their families, take into account public opinion, and struggle between morality and emotion。
Many men, when faced with the gesture of a married woman, find themselves in a situation of self-doubt: does she really like me? Or did i make love to myself
It is a normal idea, after all, that married persons are there and that an invisible wall is built, which is not easy to overcome. It is indeed a painful thing to stand in the way of a man and have feelings with a married woman。
But we want to know that married women are also human beings and have the right to love. Although their behaviour is subject to a number of restrictions, they are bound to leave a trail of truth。
Of course, we do not encourage the destruction of another's marriage. This is not to say that a married woman's affection must be wrong, but rather that she needs to look at it rationally。
So, what would a married woman do to you
In fact, as long as you look carefully, it's not hard to see. Because men and women, when a married woman falls in love with you, these three manifestations are often difficult to hide。
01
It's hard to hide
Many men in their emotions always want women to express their feelings directly。
They feel that they like to say it and don't come near it, so it's simple and clear that no one is wasting time。
For married women, however, it is almost impossible to express love directly. They have too many factors to take into account, and each step needs to be careful and fear that the wrong step will be taken。
Thus, when faced with a man whose heart is moved, they tend to experiment with the means to confirm each other's feelings and the possibility of such feelings。
This test may be verbally provocative or behaviourally indicative. They'll watch your reaction through some seemingly funny words。
But remember, the test of married women is not just to satisfy their curiosity. Behind their test is a desire for this feeling and a concern for the future。
Imagine, if a woman didn't feel for you, would she spend time and energy testing you? She can stay away and live a good life。
So, a married woman is always testing you, and you really have to take it seriously. Because it often shows that she has carefully considered the possibility between you。
02
It's hard to hide
The lives of married women often revolve around the family。
Most of their time and energy are devoted to their husbands and children。
Some would say that married women also have their own social circle and go out with friends. Of course it is, but this kind of socialization, and having a man out alone, is a completely different concept。
For married women, dating a man alone is in itself an adventure。
Because it means not only that she has to spend time and effort in arranging this date, but also that she has to bear the pressure from all sides。
She may find a variety of reasons to hide the real purpose of the date. It may be “work needs”, it may even be “an old friend's gathering”, it may even be “in a bad mood, wanting to talk to someone”。
But none of these reasons can hide her deep-rooted desire for you. Because a woman wants to spend time and energy alone with you. That's the feeling, it's the fire。
Is it true that a woman is free to find a man who is normal and not even happy to be alone? It's not realistic。
When a married woman often asks you out for various reasons, that means she has special feelings for you。
03
It's hard to hide it
Many believe that married women should distance themselves from the opposite sex and should not talk too much about their private affairs。
There is some reason for this view. After all, married status determines the need for greater attention to their words and behaviour。
But we also need to understand that everyone has a need to be heard and that married women are no exception. They also encounter problems, problems and confusion in marriage。
When a married woman begins to talk to you frequently, even in very private matters, it is often not simply “friends”。
Because it's safer and easier to talk to people of the same sex. Why do we have to find a different person
Clearly, her trust in you has gone beyond the boundaries of ordinary friends. She is willing to show her vulnerability before you and to share her secrets with you, which is in itself an emotional revelation。
This shows that what she wants from you is not just consolation and advice, but emotional support and understanding. She's subconscious. She's got you on her back。
She thinks you're one of her own。
At the end
The world of affection is never black or white。
Married women in love with you may not meet the moral standards of secularity, but that doesn't mean that it's wrong。
We certainly do not advocate the destruction of others ' marriages, but we also need to look at them rationally when they occur。
There are people in this world who suppress their feelings for so-called morality, and there are people who are desperate for true love。
There is no absolute right or wrong in either option, but a different result。
It is important that we know what we want and what we are willing to do for it。
If you're also interested in her and are willing to take the risks that this feeling may entail, then you should be brave enough to face yourself。
But if you can't accept this relationship, then the best way is to stay away from each other and not give each other any hope。
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