There is nothing more subtle and subtle than the incoherence of marriage。
Unlike single men and women, married women are well aware of identity constraints and secular rules, and even if they are true to a man outside marriage, they will not speak out. They are only careful to hide their thoughts, to release the hints quietly, without moving in detail。
Many men do not understand these subtle signals, but are gentle and gentle, unwittingly plunged into a vortex of obscurity, which leads to disputes and delays in each other's lives。
It is important to understand that all sudden preferences and unjustified proximity have never been mere human favors, but have long-intended hearts. The heart of a married woman is never in her mouth, but it is all hidden in abnormal details of words and deeds. By understanding these four signals, she can see through her carelessness, keeping the borders in time and circumventing right and wrong。
And say, "the most restrained love of adults is that they are afraid to speak out and to be visible, and only by detail can they suggest that they come forward and show themselves."。
Subconsciousness suits your preferences, and it's just like you
The normal socialization of human beings is always self-preservation. Every person has his or her own habits and interests and does not change himself deliberately for the sake of ordinary acquaintances。
But if a married woman gets excited about you, she'll break this social pattern. She will focus all her attention on you, writing down all your preferences in silence, and then she will be a little bit closer to your world。
You like sports and gymnastics, and she's used to playing cards, playing cards, sharing dynamics in friends' circles, just so you can see; you prefer light diets, you like to visit shops, you like to play cards, she likes to mimic your tastes and share the same day; you like music, books, dress styles, she learns quietly。
This unprovoked synchronization is not a coincidence, but a deliberate favour and a hint. She's willing to put down her own pace of life, to take all your preferences, and to say nothing, she's moving on to you, eager to get closer to you and to see her fit and purpose。
Know that a married woman who is not even willing to be with her companions in the morning or in the morning, is willing to change for you and to approach you, a perverse initiative that has already crossed the border of friendship。
Zhang xiaoxian said, ‘man only changes himself for those who care, and all kindness and homogeneity cannot hide.’。
02. Frequent encounters, purposely in your circle
Most of the time spent in the world is done deliberately. Common heterosexuality can only keep a moderate distance, without deliberately participating in the life of the other party and breaking into its circle。
And the biggest thing about a married woman who's moved is that she wants to see you for a while. In order to be close to you, she worked hard to figure out your life course, to be precise in all the places you often appear。
You often go to the stadium, the gym, the coffee shop, and she shows up on time; you're involved in friends' parties, amateurs, and she's on her own; even if she happens to have a very low probability, she creates an opportunity to get along。
A very real case of life has been seen: a married woman who learned that her colleague liked climbing on weekends, who was not in love with outdoor sports, appeared on a regular basis every week on the same route, just for a short encounter and a simple cold. Even when the other side was alienated, she insisted on not giving up any chance of living together。
The time and energy of adults are precious, and no one wastes time on unrelated people for no reason. All deliberate encounters and frequent homogeneity are her indissoluble preferences and the most blatant incoherence。
Zhou zhou zhou zhou ping said: "the true love never waits for encounters, but rather travels on its own, crossing the distance, just to get close to each other。
You've got to remember everything you say
Most of the ordinary people live together in left and right ears, and no one will remember what others say or say unwittingly. This is the most normal social state for adults。
But a married woman who likes you will take every word you say. You talk about your worries, your unwitting wishes, your preferences, even if it's a long time away, she can remember them clearly, and sometimes even come forward and respond with kindness。
She'll be watching your emotional changes in everyday life. And when you are happy, she takes the initiative and exalts; when you fall, she comforts you in the first place; and when you make a small promise, she will remember in silence and find a chance for you. Unlike ordinary friends, she is careful, permanent and exclusive。
The more obvious details are that she always looks at you softly, speaks softly, and treats you more patiently, with more care and with specialness than others. This unique preference has long crossed ordinary heterosexual boundaries。
It is clear that the heart of a married person is the family, the exclusive partner. She has given you all the care, memory and tenderness, the clearest sign of inspiration。
"the most intuitive expression of true love for a human being is that he remembers the lightness of his day and misses his joy and sorrow."。
04 active sharing of private life, frequent talk to you yes
This is the most hidden, and vulnerable, hint. Adults have mechanisms for self-protection that do not easily reveal their private lives to outsiders and speak of their inner weaknesses。
But a woman who's got a heart in her marriage will be conscious of putting you out of your guard and putting you on emotional trust. She will be willing to share with you daily trimesters, trimesters, little work, little work, nothing to tell you; she will tell you about the difficulties of marriage, the distress of life, the stress of heart。
She would have meant to show your vulnerability before you, spitting down on life and telling you she was alone and helpless. It seems to be a simple talk, but it's a weakness, a pain in the ass, and a slow distance, making you the person on whom she depends。
Marriage's frustrations and personal emotions are the most private matters. She is not willing to speak to her family and her companions, but she is only frank with you, which is sufficient proof that you are already in her heart, more than a friend。
It also says that a woman's talk is not just talk, but trust and initiative. If you're willing to show your weakness, it's a complete shock to you。
At the end
In the adult world, the sense of proportionality is the bottom line and the sense of boundary is the healing. Marriage means, above all, one's life, one's loyalty to one another and the preservation of one's identity and security。
These subtle insinuations of married women, which appear to be gentle, delicate and unharmful, are rather vague across borders and are a move against the bottom line of marriage. All the emotions that breed in marriage, which seem romantic and fresh, are mostly mirror moons, which not only consume each other, but also destroy both families and leave behind endless regrets。
Understanding these signals, the wisest choice is never to be on the right side, but to be sober and proactive. Keep your distance, keep your borders, don't get in the way of obscurantism, don't get in the way of right and wrong. It's both a family and a family。
The rest of the life is very expensive, the distance between divorce and divorce is so vague, so that you can stay away from trouble and be safe at your age。
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