The matter of marriage is one of uncertainty and complexity, of every one of us。
They say, "i look forward to the future when i think about spending the rest of my life with you." so this man must be the result of your careful choice。
The old saying of one side, which is not fully believed, after all, is of some value。
You like to get a card from the boss, "don't brush it, don't come back." or do you like two people working hard all day and going home, and he says, "i'll cook, you wait, i'll be fine."
This time, the writer combs a series of different features of husbands around the world
There are many, but there have been a lot of talk about it, and it's a little bit of a wrap-up, and it's interesting to see it。
Let's talk about shanghai's husband。
“small men, afraid of their wives” ? Respect for women, be kind and smart
Data from previous years indicate that the average height of boys in shanghai is 173, but the new generation of young people is now better developed, with an average height likely to reach 175. Shanghai boys give the most common impression of the public's appearance: refined, fashionable, clean. Most shanghai boys, however, are more respectful of women and considerate, and rarely drink or smoke unless necessary for work. When two people are together, girls can feel what is called “the gruesome drowning” and “the equal sharing and care of the household”. The data show that although boys in shanghai still spend less time than girls in housework, they are much more than in other regions。
For boys in some of the more luxuriant areas, shanghai boys tend to be labelled as “small men”, “fear of wives”. In fact, instead of understanding it from a different angle, it's interesting to see a shanghai-based boy online who responds to this label:
From this, as one of the thousands of husbands in shanghai, the answer from the netizens shows that the boys in shanghai are really very smart and cute. If you want to get out of a bar, there's no better reason than "i don't want to drink, my wife won't." it's not like it's a "fear of wife" impression。
These labels and images of shanghai boys are inextricably linked to the economic level and development of shanghai. Data show that the average wage of women in shanghai is only below that of guangdong qingqing. In the period 1987-2010, however, the proportion of women in shanghai was higher than that of men. Thus, for historical reasons, women in shanghai are economically independent and more economically independent, while women are supported by material conditions and naturally have more status and rights in gender relations. Moreover, shanghai was not only the first industrial city in china, but also the first society in china to establish a modern municipal system for policing. The shanghaiers are used to looking for the police instead of solving their own problems with violence, so there is a label for “small men”. Actually, that's more of the image of civilization we want。
“small gas”? It's a matter of principle. It's fine
The fact that shanghai boys went out to like aa is very impressive. In many places where it is believed that the boy is going out, the shanghai boys feel a little stingy. But actually, if you're the wife of a shanghai boy. First of all, you're in charge of the family money. There's no aa. Even if you don't own the money, have you seen the shanghai boys with their wife aa? Second, your shanghai husband went out with someone else. You want him to waste your family's assets? After all, shanghai has a saying: "don't swollen your face with fatty."。
This is also an expression of the importance attached by shanghai boys to the rules and principles. I don't pay much, you don't pay much, you don't take advantage. But this has also given rise to a sense of distance from boys in shanghai. As a wife or girlfriend, it was hard to get into his heart at first, but there was no such thing as distance。
3. More exclusion
In fact, shanghai boys tend to look for locals, which is the same in many places, for example in the area of jiang zhe. When the economy is more developed, there is a sense of geographical superiority. There is also the perception that cultural and intellectual aspects require much smaller convergence. And a shanghai account, as everyone knows, means many advantages. But there is also a more realistic possibility that the so-called non-fielders, who can cross geographical barriers if they are good, will certainly not be a problem。
And in reality, one of the things that matters to you is the key person, mrs. Shanghai. On the internet, there is a lot of talk from shanghai-based women, as well as stereotypes from shanghai-based aunts, which make them less popular. In fact, the issue of the daughter-in-law is one that exists in any part of the country, and the higher status of women in shanghai creates the impression that after becoming a mother-in-law, you might become the daughter-in-law of shanghai one day, the mother-in-law of shanghai。
Does everyone's impression of the shanghai boys match that
