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In the process of women's and men's coexistence, many men are caught in a general error zone, feeling that they want to get closer to each other, impress each other's hearts, talk to each other's hearts, send frequent messages and greet each other's affairs, and report to each other on a daily basis。
But when it comes to reality, we all find that over-intensity of communication not only does not increase feelings, but rather makes it easier for each other to become aesthetic fatigue and become tired. At first, there will be a serious response to the news, which will only last for a long period of time, even deliberately avoiding communication。
Emotions are never built on high frequency chats, nor are they pursued by death. The real way to get a woman to move, to move, to end up completely dependent, to never leave you is never an endless chat, but rather to find the rhythm to get along and to move people with real action。
The quality of relationships between adults is tempered and close. Properly reducing the amount of time and energy spent on idle daily chats, putting aside the amount of time and energy that is spent on real and small things, making a warm move in the details, reading the real needs of her heart, and over time, she will slowly let go of all her precautions, relying on you from the inside, and naturally treating you as the most inseparable person in her life. This document is based on a positive attitude towards marriage, a rejection of vulgarity and a focus on sharing a healthy and long-lasting approach to life for men and women, and is suitable for reading and learning by all those who are single in their pursuit, in their relationship with a couple and in their relationship with a married person。
I. Precise the error zone: daily sticky connections are consuming your good sensor
Many young men and women are now used to using mobile phones to maintain their feelings, sharing information from morning to late night, making small things available and talking to each other without a topic, fearing that their relationship will fade。
The seemingly intimacy of communication carries many emotional risks. In the first place, each person has his or her own pace of life, has a job to finish, has a personal mood that needs to be digested alone, has his or her own social circle and hobby. The prolonged and uninterrupted receipt of information can lead to the loss of privacy and a strong sense of restraint and oppression。
In particular, women who are sensitive and tend to live in peace are particularly repulsive and unsatisfied. There are no real greetings, no enthusiasts, no enthusiasts, no daily flow of accounts, no short term fun, but only boring in the long run, slowly losing the desire to talk。
Second, over-active linkages can bring down their own postures. A relationship that attracts each other and treats each other equally, and once one side has no bottom line, things are moving, things are coming along, there's no sense of presence in the other side, there's no sense in the other side, there's no reason to get used to what you're doing, there's no reason to take your initiative for granted, there's no way to appreciate it。
And the most important point is that maintaining close ties every day will quickly exhaust each other's sense of freshness. Much of the love between human beings stems from a sense of mystery and expectation, a constant exchange of information, and nothing between them, a rapid display of all the good and bad, a faster retreat of fresh feelings and a subsequent gradual loss of affection, which has faded without formal certainty。
Many men still wonder why they still don't get each other's heart when they take the initiative, think about things and do everything. The central reason is that, in the wrong way, frequent contact is treated as love, ignoring the fact that what is most needed in women's hearts is not mere company to talk, but rather to rely on it in peace, with a fine understanding and with a proper preference。
Rather than being distant, it is giving each other enough space to live with each other, to preserve a proper sense of mystery, to allow each other to slowly think of you in a light life, and to be more profoundly immersed in the mind than in a day when you are disturbed, in a modest way。
Ii. Emotional coherency, understanding of inner emotions, and her exclusive emotional dependence
It is the first thing that makes it easier for a woman to enter her heart, and it is the act that makes her dependent on her core。
Women are born to be sensitive and emotionally sensitive, seem strong and independent in their day-to-day lives, and have many difficulties and pressures in their hearts. Inconvenient at work, troubled at work, in human relationships, often chooses to hide behind their hearts, not to talk easily to others, much less to let out negative emotions。
Most ordinary friends only laugh and have fun when she is happy, and few are willing to remain silent, listen to her deep-seated concerns and be patient with her as she falls and falls. And all you have to do is be the one who is unique and able to see through her strong and fragile appearance。
It is not necessary to ask questions of a daily nature, but it is important to keep an eye on her emotions. When she was found to have a low level of speech, tired of words and no longer actively sharing her day-to-day experiences, she did not have to be kept informed about the reasons, greeted with kindness, listened to all her complaints in a quiet and patient manner, was not eager to reason, was not free to judge right or wrong, and was not blindly accused of complaining。
When women talk about their problems, the habit is to analyze the pros and cons from a rational point of view, to indoctrinate the truth, to tell her what to do and what not to do, which will only make the other one more depressed. What is least needed is reason, and what is most needed is understanding, inclusion and mutuality。
Learn to look at the problem from her perspective, to be understanding her body, to accept all her emotions, and to tell her that, whatever happens, you will always stand by her side to support her, to accommodate all her little temperaments and negative energy. When she was happy, she was happy with her, when she was lost, and when she was frustrated, she stood up for her first time。
For a long time, she will slowly become a habit, and the first thing she wants to share with you is that you're the first person to think about when she's sad. When you became her unique emotional haven, able to keep all her joy and sorrow steady, she was already heavily dependent on you in her heart, a spiritual dimension that was much stronger than daily chatting, and that was difficult to untangle when it became customary。
Iii. Relevant responsibility, account and responsibility sensor
Words of sweetness are spoken by everyone, and promises made are spoken by everyone, but real action is taken, but not by all. It is the most critical behaviour that moves a woman's heart, rather than saying so many words every day, saying so much and so much and doing so。
When women choose their companions, their innermost consideration is not rhetorical, nor glamorous appearance, but a sense of security and truth. Their desire for affection is when things are talked about, when things are shared, when the wind and the wind are covered up, not when the sweet words fly, and when they encounter real problems, they retreat。
In daily life, there is no need to deliberately create too many romantic surprises, but it is important that things be done and things be heard. Promises made to each other's small things must be done with a heart, not with an easy promise that cannot be made, but with every effort made. The challenges that have been promised and agreed to help are being seriously addressed。
When she is in a difficult situation, she is overwhelmed by the difficulties, and should not be left alone in a state of uncertainty, and should not be allowed to speak out, to come forward and help her with ideas, to share the pressure and to help her through the difficulties. There is trouble in life, and we share it with each other。
There is more discipline in the details of life, and there is a great deal of maturity in the way people do things, and there is a clear basis for dealing with people and things around them, and there is a clear plan for future life, so that she can see clearly how forward and responsible you are. And when you are with you, you do not have to think about it all day long, and you do not have to worry about anything, and you can count on you for everything。
When a woman feels perfectly secure and secure in you and is sure that you are a man worthy of trust and responsibility, she slowly drops all her guard and trusts you with all her heart. Once the sense of security has taken root, she will become accustomed to relying on you, and will find herself in your hands at first sight, slowly and again。
Iv. Life is delicate, day-to-day details are taken care of. Protect
A true deep-seated preference has always been hidden in the invisible details of life, and it is only in the short term that big romances and thin waters of detail can warm the hearts and minds of the people. To reduce the amount of talk on the internet, to put more thoughts into the details of how she lives, to remember her preferences and to do something warm。
Remember with heart what she's always talking about, what she prefers to eat, what she likes to wear, what she wants, and what she's obsessed with. In the process of living with each other, her little wish is fulfilled quietly at the right time, at no cost, and a simple act of mind is enough to warm her heart。
When the weather changes, there is no need to send frequent messages to keep her warm, to keep her warm, to schedule her travel ahead, and not to bother her. When travelling together, she takes care of her condition, takes care of her eating habits, takes care of her food when eating, and gives priority to her feelings。
While she was busy and exhausted, she was helped by the silence to take care of her side, to bring her a glass of warm water, a simple meal, and to be alone and alone. They know when to be with each other, when to be alone, not to interfere in her private life and not to interfere in her social life。
At the same time, she has the ability to take care of her emotional dignity, to take her face fully into account in the face of others, to preserve her image, and to live in private with her minor shortcomings. Do not make fun of her, do not make fun of her short board and give her full respect and dignity at all times。
These seemingly trivial little daily events, accumulated over the years, will slowly gather into full love and warmth. Women themselves value the truth in the details, and you give it with your heart, and she can feel it clearly. For a long time, she will be used to your caring life, to your loving company, to your gradual integration into each other's lives, and to the indispensability of her life。
V. Maintaining a pattern of living together, knowing how to keep a good name and keep a comfortable distance
Many people mistakenly think that if they want to hold one person firmly, they have to stick together all the time, taking up all the free time of the other. On the contrary, high-quality, long-standing feelings, the most taboo, borderless vagaries, the perfect confidance, the loose mode of living together are the most memorable。
A proper reduction in daily meaningless mammoth chats, each busy with his or her own business and life, focusing on upgrading his or her abilities, managing his or her own personal life, using his or her time to improve himself or her heart, building a better person, rather than turning around each other and losing his or her self。
When two people do not disturb each other, they have separate growth spaces, do not create a ambivalence between them, and do not deplete all enthusiasm with each other in the morning and evening. A short distance is not to be left alone, but rather to meet again for a better day, where each of us can work and talk together, a pattern that is easy and comfortable。
In days of infrequent connections, self-advancement, the development of interests belonging to one's own, the enrichment of one's spiritual world and the shaping of a steady and mature personality. When you're good enough to speak and act with glamour, you don't have to take the initiative, and naturally you attract the other side to come to you and miss you。
At the same time, we have a large-scale relationship, open-mindedness, small-scale problems, suspicion and the cold war. Learn to accommodate each other's differences in character, embrace imperfections in each other's body, and when conflicting differences arise, to communicate calmly and rationally, not to argue over passions, and not to strain feelings in the cold war。
To give each other a private social space, to respect her circle of friends, to respect her personal preferences, and not to take over all the time and liberty that governs her. The more you know about moderation, the more you miss each other, and the more you value the time when you're together, the easier it is to be completely lost。
Vi. Understanding the moderate preference for inclusion, adherence to the bottom line of principles, clarity in love
In order for women to become completely dependent on themselves, they must be committed to caring for others, while at the same time keeping to the bottom line of their principles of doing what they do, be gentle, be submissive, and never lose their bones and positions in order to please each other。
The best thing in a relationship is equal love, mutual accommodation, tolerance, not one party's high-handedness, and one side's humbled refusal to give. She can live with her small tempers, take her small emotions into account, adjust to her harmless little habits, give her enough tenderness and favour, and make her feel truly happy to be taken care of。
But there is a question of principle, of right and wrong, and it is important to stand firm, to be clear, not blindly condoning, and not to compromise. In exchange for nothing but contempt and contempt, it is only a man of self-righteousness, tenderness and opinion who is more respectable。
Learn to take the measure of preference and restraint, and be gentle when it comes to tenderness and firmness. In life, she is treated as a careless person, with one single, mature and one-sided face of great events, one that is both gentle and moderate, and one that is most fascinated by the state in which she lives。
And she will be able to live with you for as long as she can feel your love and your heart, but also your own vision and the air, and she will not feel weak, nor will she feel confined. In such a comfortable and warm emotional atmosphere, she will grow more and more in love with this unique tenderness and security, slowly identifying you from the bottom of her heart and willing to remain with you。
Vii. Discarding impatience, long-term management, and maintaining true feelings
Many people are now too impatient to deal with each other, too fast, too eager to determine relationships, too eager to respond, too easily opting out of retrenchment when results are not available in the short term, and never willing to remain silent to manage their feelings slowly。
It is clear that the hearts are warm, and that dependence is a little bit formed, and that there has never been a moment of love, and that there is no moment of emotion. To reduce the acuteness of the work, to put down the impatience of the pursuit, to gradually infiltrate her life and heart with long patience and sincerity。
There is no need to rush a moment closer to each other, no need to urge each other to give their answers, to follow their own nature, to do what they have to do, and to give what they really want to do in return. Time is the best way to prove true, to be with each other every day, to act in a steady and steady manner, to be well cared for, and to be seen in every heart for so long。
The emotional development is gradual, from the courtesy of first-time knowledge, to a gradual exchange of heart and heart, to a natural dependence on each other, and to a steady step-by-step pace of emotion, without rushing to achieve it or risking crossing the border. Respect for each other's emotional tempo, and a slow and comfortable approach by both sides, will lead to stronger emotional foundations。
It is important to remain in love and to remain true to the original heart and passion. Don't wait until you have it all, let go of your business, let go of her. All hard-earned hearts and dependencies need to be protected for a long time. Only if you cherish it with your heart, this deep feeling will last forever。
Viii. Comprehensive summary: direction and action at the high level
It is not difficult to combine all the logic of living together, to see that, in order to truly enter a woman's heart, to allow her to become deeply dependent from the bottom of her heart, and to leave you no longer, the core secret is never to be disturbed by conversation, nor to be intruded by rhetoric, but rather to move away from superficial formalism and to focus all of her energy on living together and acting。
Be emotional, be spiritual harbours on which she can rely at all times; take the initiative and give full sense of security and wellness; take care of the details of life and act with a little warmth to warm the hearts of people; live together in harmony and comfort and distance from each other; be gentle and firm and secure in the face of the bottom line; run patiently for a long time and sink in the truest feelings of time。
A little less idle talk on the line, a little more heart-to-heart, a little less rhetorical promises, and a little more action-to-do。
The most enduring attraction in a relationship is never a fresh feeling, but a day after day, a knowledge, accompaniment, and love. When you do these real things, slowly integrate into her life, and enter her heart, she will slowly become accustomed to your presence, and she will become fond of your tenderness and dependence on your responsibilities. Naturally, your heart will be filled with you, and you will never be left alone from within。
Topical discussion
Do you agree with the notion that there is less talk and more practical action in relationships? Do you think it's the gentleness of the language or the ability to act that is most appealing to men and women? Do you prefer a sticky company or a loose one? Welcome to the comment section for your real thoughts and emotional experience. People who want to work with men and women who want to work with each other are encouraged to pay attention to the accounts and to continue to learn more practical ways to sustain their feelings。
