Jurisdictional disputes: the family is also a system of authority and responsibility. There are many matters and problems of common life in the family that require timely decision-making, which is a matter of power. The husband wanted to buy a computer, the wife wanted to buy a piano, but he had enough money to buy only one, who had the right to make a decision? If there is no clear division of powers, conflicts arise. It is a right that is related to the exercise of power and the exercise of rights or interests. Who is entitled to take possession of or dispose of them in the family, where there are numerous material and spiritual resources? This raises the issue of rights. The wife gave the old tv to her parents, and the husband did not believe that she had the right to dispose of it because the tv was bought on her own. The wife, on the other hand, considers herself to be a housewife and has certain rights. As a result, conflicts emerged. Power and rights should be linked to responsibility and responsibility. Almost all matters in the family require responsibility and responsibility. You have to cook at night. Who's cooking? Who's supposed to buy food? Who's washing? Who's cooking? The husband may consider this to be the duty of the wife, who considers that the husband should at least complete the first two processes. Inevitably, there is a conflict of responsibility on both sides. The tendency to lead to conflict is to: (1) prefer to take over, expand or exonerate; (2) have a vague mandate, with a vague line of responsibility, in which both parties consider themselves to have a decision-making power or that the other party does not have a right and is not responsible; (3) when one party competes for power in this regard, the other side compensates for the other; and when one party relinquishs responsibility in this regard, the other party does not take care of the other。
