Micro-intersection psychology: delete best friend "not hurt"
Read: how will you react when your online friends remove you from the list of friends? The most recent study shows that when your facebook friends and you break your friendship, you experience the degree of anxiety and negative emotion that you use facebook。
How would you react when your online friends remove you from the list of best friends? Scholars have found that, at least on facebook, there is little difference between the harm done to you and the real life. The most recent study shows that when your facebook friends and you break your friendship, you experience the degree of anxiety and negative emotion that you use facebook。
In addition to that, the degree of intimate relations between you and your friend; the fact that you know who deleted you; the reason why your perceived counterparty was in contact with your friend; and the priority given to your friend's application have an impact on the final level of harm。
Researchers found that “the long-term use of facebook will mean that users will devote a lot of effort to maintaining facebook friends, and that when they lose one of their friends, they will have a strong cognitive and emotional reaction”, which means that the more time you spend on facebook, the more harm a good friend’s initiative “disappears” hurts you。
Researchers measure the reasons why people feel the other side has broken their friendships, such as being too active on facebook, expressing extreme views, making inappropriate comments, or having problems with each other in real life, or not knowing each other too well。
Although most people believe that friends are cut off from themselves because of an underground incident, if they contact friends for facebook-related reasons, this triggers the strongest negative reactions from users。
Whether or not to make a friendly application on its own initiative is also an important factor. When you volunteer to make friends' applications, you have placed yourself in a lower position and you must wait patiently for your application to be accepted。
If the other side breaks this friendship after accepting a friend's application, it'll cause you to lose consciousness. To know why he had to accept a friend's application in the past might have caused you to think and feel bad。
As in real life, the closer the relationship on facebook breaks down, the greater the harm done to you. The exception, however, is for parents, who do not have a negative impact when parents and themselves break their friendships because the student group on facebook is more repulsive and because their parents are online friends。
Although it is difficult to even distinguish between on-line and below-line, as the internet increasingly penetrates our lives. But at least at this stage, the study cautions against investing too much in social networks, and we need a modest return to normal life。
Maybe this time you should turn off the twitter page and take some time with your family and friends。
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