Hello, folks. I'm auntie cheng。
What's family education? It's not about staring at homework, it's not about getting paid, and it's not about fighting kids. Today, in the most common and pertinent words, i will summarize the seven core points of family education, bearing in mind the fact that children can really travel less than 10 years。
First, set the rules and then talk about relationships. Many families, in turn, are soft when they cry, compromise when they do, fail to live, and children are increasingly difficult to control. The family can be gentle, but there can be no boundaries, little things are not tolerated, big things are not confusing, and children feel safe。
Second, parents' emotional stability is the best windwater in the family. Don't do your homework and yell. The kid's not afraid of you being tough, he's afraid of you getting out of control. You can hold on to your child's heart, and you can't learn。
Third, don't grow up for the kids. Let go. Pack your bags, pack your room, make your own mistakes. The more things you do, the less capable the child is; the sooner you let go, the more independent the child is. Don't raise the baby like a giant baby, it's the family that's suffering。
Fourthly, it's too much effort, not too much intelligence. It is only when a child is smart that he is afraid of failure and he is serious, insistent and willing to suffer that he will become more aggressive. True self-confidence is built on its own, not on its mouth。
Fifth, teaching is better than telling the story. You do better than you say. You brush your cell phone every day, don't you think kids like to play with your cell phone; you like to read, to be polite, to be nice, to learn. The family is a photocopying machine, the parents are original and the children are only copies。
Sixth, allowing children to make mistakes is the best teacher to fail. It's not like it's going down without a good exam, without a job, or having problems with your classmates. It's good for a child to experience the consequences and learn the lessons。
Seventh, be busy and be accompanied by quality. Instead of sitting next to a shivering voice, he dropped his phone and talked about his little troubles. The child's childhood is a few years old, and your absence will cost you no money。
In fact, family education has never been about transforming children, but rather about the parents themselves. Grab these seven cores, don't worry, don't waste, don't get busy, the kids will be what you expect。
I'm cheng's aunt, and i'm paying attention to home education, and i'm paying attention to me
