This week we spent two more days in ningxia than the people of the country, plus weekends, to take our children and two elderly people for a short trip。
I am not a particularly tourist-friendly person, and travel itself is not very attractive to me, but every time i go out to see happy parents and children, it is another pleasure for me。
When we get married, we work hard and have our own children, and the time we spend with our parents is drastically reduced. Parents, especially in black and white children, are busy and have a sense of respect and lack of self-esteem, and occasionally go home for a little while, and travel is basically the best way to spend their child-to-child lives。
Investment is one of the building blocks of our lives, but it is just one of the easiest ways to make money in the stock market is to be quiet and enjoy life。
01
The more you expect, the more you torture
The time when i began to stabilize myself for money is when the expectations for this matter got lower。
On the contrary, when i first entered the market, i had great expectations about the stock market, and i hated entering it with a year of financial freedom. I'm hoping that every day i get up, every day i make money from the stock market. The result, however, was the opposite。
Fortunately, i have a small advantage in being able to face my own mistakes, and so quickly on the right path。
When my neighbor's uncle moved, he gave me a plant, and he said, "take good care of the flowers that will be beautiful."
So i was full of expectations. I get up in the morning, i go out at noon, i go to bed at night, but one day, two days, three days, i can't feel much change. Eventually, i lost interest in it, threw it in the corner of the yard and let the rain blow。
And one day a few months later, i looked there unexpectedly, and it really opened a flower。
We have seen a lot of news over the years of forgetting that we own a stock and that we earn a lot of money a few years later, sometimes it's not our ability to make money but our common purpose。
The story of the seed-breeding, which we should all have heard as a child, is that the sooner we get results on one thing, the easier it is to lose. When we care particularly about one thing, it is torture that gets the most feedback。
So i think the easiest way to make money in the stock market is not to watch him every day, to see his movements, but to enjoy life。
Building a combination with a high-quality lead company, then going to the preferred life, fishing when you like to fish, sports when you like to play, games when you want to play, play with your family, enjoy life, hold a warehouse account every year, and i find it hard to lose money。
The use of wealth is easy, but the goal of life is not just wealth。
Take it easy, don't try to be in control, don't try to be quick, it's time to have a calm mind and feel the joy of every day of life。
02
Only if you live first can you live better
Properly spread out, buying only the lead, enjoying life is enough to allow us to earn a steady gain in the stock market。
Black and white is a moderate and determined supporter, because i am deeply aware that, as an ordinary person, we cannot fail to make mistakes。
A recent request for help was sent by a fund manager on snowball, in the broad sense that the fund would be closed if a new hosting platform could not be found and that he would not want to fall on the night before dawn because of the heavy storage of chinese buildings, which had led to a significant withdrawal of the fund over the past three years。
The first sentence at the beginning of the letter was that the market had been less friendly to value investors over the past three years。
However, black and white felt that the last three or four years had been the best price offer, and some businesses that had generally performed slightly better had seen a modest increase。
Impressed as an old snowball user, who spoke at the snowball for 12 to 13 years, there should be some ability to survive for so long in the stock market, and he neither pursues hot spots nor holds value。
This is what is happening today. It's because sometimes we're too confident that we're right and then bet on all our assets and even leverage, and finally put ourselves at great risk in a business that seems risk-free。
Don't you ever think we're doing something unusual because of our past performance
It's better to eat coarse tea than to eat big fish meat。
Investment in black and white has seen many tragic cases over the years, for two reasons, one too eager and one too confident。
In fact, most of us have free money to invest in the stock market, proving that life is good, that there is room, money and flowers, and that there is a surplus that can be invested。
Our desire is too strong, so there are too many self-media outlets that teach us how to make millions a year, how to make a small amount of money in return, but rational, what really makes millions a year with a small amount of capital, is the self-media that teaches people how to make millions a year。
We always have a good time in the stock market, and this is when we remind ourselves that we are all ordinary people。
In his self-reflection, the emperor wrote that my past has been marked by pride, haste, haste, haste, haste。
03
It's more of a source of evil
In fact, most lives are not bad, but why do you think it's necessary to make money in such a desperate manner, when you make a big mistake? Why risk such a wonderful life。
We like to compare in life because we don't seem to have a standard concept of happiness. Everyone else is happy when they can eat three meals a day. People can eat enough, and they always feel happy with fish and meat。
We all have fish and meat, and you're not so happy to eat fish and meat, and you're in a hurry to eat fish and seafood. The same life, your happiness has declined just because the surrounding environment has changed。
The daughter-in-law went to her neighbour to complain, and her husband played games every day, and my sister-in-law cried. My husband not only played games, but often did not come home at night. The daughter-in-law immediately felt that playing games was not a big deal。
Let's take a look at the next diagram, the left and right. What's the big dot at the center
In fact, the dots at both centres are the same size, but the comparison around them changes our senses。
Thinking of the old generation as being more difficult than it is now, it is better to live than it is to travel; indeed, it is the same for people who are not afraid of being poor together, but who are more wealthy than themselves. Once we start comparing, it's easy to do stupid things。
It's more envious, and it makes people think blindly fast。
If it is more a source of evil, perhaps it is jealousy。
Wang saku once said that, with a slight change。
People always find a sense of superiority to survive and have nothing to do with it and end up wanting to meet that demand through gender discrimination and online orientation。
And one of the characteristics of smart people is that they're good at making ordinary lives sound, swimming in glass fish tanks, and having the air to break through。
So, don't be greedy. We can't have everything. Don't be discouraged。
Enjoy life without comparison, without concern for the views of others, without the need to have a good relationship, without the need to have a good relationship。
The monologue of ximulon says:
And it was only at the beginning that it came to me that my efforts in my lifetime were only for the satisfaction of those around me. In order to capture the promise and smile of others, i put myself in all modes, all shackles。
And it came to pass that i found nothing but a vague face and a path that cannot turn back。
Life is freedom at the highest level, free from emotions and desires。
04
All the big changes take time
One such message was received this morning:
Delays and waivers often stem from our fear of unknown and high-level goals, and are in fact done with a calm mind, and the result is not bad, especially when it comes to writing such things, at no cost, and what harm can it do to try
Everything takes time to accumulate in order to attain a certain level of wealth, as does knowledge and a certain skill。
An earlier reader asked about black and white, and he wanted to write a public sign, but for months there was no one to look at。
I've gone backstage for him, and early black and white are very few readers, and the only difference is that i don't have a lot of expectations about it, but i do a hobby。
It's basically just writing, writing, answering messages and doing things that you like, whether it's people or not, and i don't see them very often. It would be a lot of surprise if writing itself were to be seen as a sort of thinking exercise, not as an attempt to attract readers。
Some modest achievements were made, unwittingly, without concern。
Now, the voice of the black and white album is 41st on the himalayan business book. The public sign is the financial investment category, number 125, and last year he was elected to the list of top ten new users of snowball and received the first small trophy in his life with a warm vote。
As an ordinary person without a team, i feel satisfied。
But if, on the contrary, you write a number, you expect more fans every day, you can open a planet, you can build a payback, you can't write anything。
Looking back at my article two years ago, i was embarrassed to look at it, but looking back at myself, it proved that i did progress during that period. If i go back to high school, and i don't believe in me, i can do a little in some field。
Before anything goes well, there's a time for bumps。
So come on, time does not fail those who really try。
Much of what you do is good, 10 books a year, 10 pages a day, but it's weird that we want to read 10 books a year, but we don't want to give them 20 minutes a day。
The best way to expect a strong return on an enterprise is not to look at the time map every day, to let itself suffer daily from stock price fluctuations, but to enjoy life, to ignore his short-term fluctuations, to give the best enterprise enough time to pay you a good return by constantly improving performance. You want three or five times the payoff, you have to give him enough time to grow up。
But we often have the ambition to earn $10 million, without waiting for a week of patience。
Don't think about it all the time. The only thing that can change life is that we're really trying to change。
05
Ignoring the future
Any choice in life has his leverage, and any gain needs to be matched。
Be a dreamer, but not a hasty one, and break the big dream down into small goals, and do small goals on a daily basis and eventually do so。
For most of us, life is morning and dawn, and the days are woody salt, time is rushing, and everything will be forgiven, healthy living, calm living, smiling, properly busy, satisfied, enjoying life, slowly becoming rich
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