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I've been brushing my head this week. A girl in henan's horse shop met her husband after 00 years of marriage and was married for 15 days. The man spent nearly 400,000 bride price, gold and liquor tables. And? Only seven days after living together, a girl files for divorce. What's the reason? "physiological disgust." i found out she was pregnant, and the man just fell off
Four hundred thousand, my friends, how many years do ordinary families have to save? Seven days is gone. There was a lot of noise in the comment section, some saying that the girl was cheating and others saying that the man was too anxious. But i would like to say that what's going on behind this is a terrible question in the post-00 marriage — what is marriage to them
Look at this set. It's really scary。
In the first quarter of 2026, 1. 97 million marriages were registered nationwide and 622,000 divorces were registered. Every couple who get married is divorced. The number of marriages was 113,000 less than in the same period last year, a decrease of over 6 per cent. Take a long time to look more secure — close to cutting back on the top of 2017. The national average age of first marriage is almost 29 years, and the first-line city is above 32. The marriageable population is also shrinking, with 5. 637 million fewer after 90 and 8. 85 million after 90. It was stated that the overall divorce rate had risen after 00 to around 57 per cent. Every couple has a breakup。
What do you think after 00
Let's start with the surprising data. According to the latest report, 71. 3 per cent of the 95th and 00th post-negative criteria for “stable moods, providing emotional values” were listed as the first criterion for the selection of a spouse, significantly exceeding economic strength for the first time (52. 1 per cent). Nearly 60 per cent of them have taken ethical qualities as their primary consideration, 48. 6 per cent have a three-dimensional focus and 45. 7 per cent have a personality focus. They look more closely at the inherent compatibility and dilute the labels of occupation, income, family background。
At the same time, however, 41. 1 per cent of the 00 is then considered and 33. 9 per cent focuses on height. The after-00 sieve logic is first aesthetic screening, then depth matching。
Lian yong-ahn, a professor at the university of jordan, has set a key point: many of these generations are single-born children, from childhood on the “cosmos centre” of the family, lack the ethics of brothers and sisters in traditional families, and it is difficult to establish emotional models of consideration and initiative for others when they leave the family. To be honest, you can manage your own little life, but it's hard to make a part of yourself fit for another person。
And there's a more positive thing about marriage being used as a "call machine."。
It has been argued that the phenomenon of “sliding marriage” is becoming a phenomenon. After the first batch of weddings, the front leg was used to screen the circle of friends and the back leg was tanned. Why? It's too easy to get married。
Most of the parents after 0000 are 70, and the child's family is carved into bones. In order for the child to get married, a down payment is paid for the old money, for renovations, for cars, for bride price and for dowry. A wedding costs up to $1. 3 million. The national average cost of marriage is $330,000, equivalent to the disposable income of ordinary young people for nearly seven years。
Parents thought they were making a happy way for their children, and turned themselves into tellers. And some young people, suddenly holding 2. 3 million, have a direct imbalance. The money came too easily — to change mobile phones, to travel, to resign from unwanted jobs, and in just a few months to squander the blood of parents. When the money is spent and the freshness fades, the reality of the woody oil salt comes and the tension breaks out. Any person who washes dishes, drags floors and sleeps at any point can cause an argument. No one wants to let themselves down, and divorce becomes “timely stop”。
But to be honest, it's not possible to kill all 00s with a stick。
On the day of the 520 in nanjing, the marriage registry was burned to the point where all the appointments had been exhausted weeks earlier. The girl li said, "with the right person, every day is the right option. It's not the same. Some of the newcomers took the prl card to get a certificate, laughing, "the house is not enough, the wedding is not going, but the honeymoon is going to iceland to see the aurora."
In the light of the light of the hour, the girl chooses to be a bride and groom. She said, "it's hard for the in-laws to make money, not to spread waste, just to get the wedding back on its feet." in jiang soo-yang's registration hall, after 0000, the newcomers stopped asking “how many bride prices your family pays” and instead talked about “how important it is to have a three-dimensional view”。
So you see, marriage after 00 is essentially two things. On the one hand, marriage has changed from a “life option” to an “optional one”. They no longer need to be guaranteed survival through marriage, and tolerance for “widow” marriages is close to zero. “low-quality marriage is less than quality single”. On the other hand, parental overstretching has left some young people without fear of marriage。
Deputy professor shen xiaofei of the university of jordan said that the “scripts” we had were not the same as the ones our parents had. Parents take “old scripts” — marriage at age. Young people get “new scripts” — more emphasis on individual growth. Two scripts collided, and the contradiction came。
At the end
Seriously, the issue of marriage after 00 is not one that can be summed up by an “irresponsibility” or “too realistic”. They are redefining marriage in their own way — either not or looking for the right person. Those who are divorced are essentially pushed into marriage by their parents before they know what they want。
I think after 80, 90 or 00, the essence of marriage has never changed. It is two independent people who are willing to face life together for the sake of giving up part of themselves. If not even prepared for that, it would have to end in seven days or seven years。
Today's topic:
Are you after 00? What do you think marriage means to you? Do you have any examples of marriage and divorce around you? Let's talk in the comment section. I'll take care of it next time
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