Which girl does not fall in love, and which one does not fall in love. The fruit of spring and love is love. The university is a gathering place for men who love in the spring, and it is natural that it should be the height of love。
I went to college. In my college, i've seen, heard a lot of love stories and had a lot of experience at college. These stories and experiences, though occurring on university campuses, still inevitably have a rather strong smell of oily sauce。
After receiving a university announcement, as a hairy boy of the love age, i naturally had a rosary vision of university life. For example, it is expected that in a romantic university campus, one of you will meet someone who knows his best. They read together in the windows, helped each other, and flew with wings. I think that a lot of boys have this dream before they get to college. Likewise, it is the hope of the girls to meet uncle liang. In the male mind, when dreaming of meeting you, you don't think you're uncle liang. The reverse is true。
In my university age, the ratio of men to women has been severely inverted, and female students are in absolute terms a resource shortage. It has been played out that in the university campus at the time, girls were “onions”. In chinese, 78th grade, only 20 girls out of more than 130 students. As for the science departments, it's even worse, and it's not unusual for a single-handed class. It's not like today, it's all upside down, and there's a dark, dark picture in the university that makes us all jealous. It's 30 years east, 30 years west。
What is love, what is love in college? Was it me and me, or was it the candles that read together? Whether it's loud and heavy, or flat and flat? I don't know. The answer to this question from others is, i am afraid, very thoughtful. For example, a village in a sports department used to tell me that he wanted to reap a “105” type of love during his university career. In the early 1980s, the monthly salary of university graduates was usually $52. 50. This is a relatively high income for young people at the time. He's talking about a college graduate as a wife. He's a sports student, he talks straight, he doesn't bend. The criteria for choosing a spouse are usually more specific, such as family conditions, height, place of origin, etc., when people have a strong sense of superiority in large cities. And that's how i'm drawn into the choice of a spouse. Let's talk about this later。
One of my university students wrote that the ratio of marriage between students in our faculty was not too high because of the lack of resources, which led to a “the emperor's daughter being married” mentality, which was more constricted in the first years of school. I do not agree with that view. Emotional stuff should only be appropriate, not best. And each one is pleased, so that he may wipe out the fire. Isn't there an old saying that you've come a long way to meet each other? The outsiders look at the right combinations, but they don't feel, nor do they shave their heads。
When i went to college, i was a little girlish. For example, the mouth is sharper, squeaking at others' weaknesses; learning is not hard enough, it's lazy, it's not easy to play; it's fair enough to have any talent for eyeballs; it's gruesome, it's more gruesome. But that does not prevent me from looking for sweet, romantic love, nor does it prevent me from wanting the attention of girls. There are many reasons why i did not launch an offensive against girls. After graduation, a girl once told me that a lot of girls at school were thinking of me and that i was too big to be in love with them. I have listened to injustice, because it is a misunderstanding。
From the point of view of the choice of a spouse, the female undergraduates, for me, are broadly divided into four categories: the first type, which can be directly excluded for reasons such as age characteristics, need not be mentioned。
The second is one that is prohibitive, and here are two examples。
The first was that a boy had secretly placed a love letter in her drawer because he admired a girl. The girl, however, gave her love letters to the counselor without exonerating her. The counsellors were simpler and harder, and the matter was published at the full-grade conference, using some stimulating language, and the boy had been disgraced for two or three years. In this case, the girl became a public enemy of many young men. People have the right to love and you have the right not to accept it. If you don't think it's appropriate, if you can't do it, why take such an extreme and unkind approach? What are you doing? After graduating from school, when a schoolgirl met to talk about the matter, one of the sources said that the girl had actually declined several times, but that the boy was a bit too dead-headed to be beaten. The girl was in such a state of discomfort. That being said, the incident had led to a certain stereotyping of the unknown boy, which was something to be understood。
Second, one of the girls had to go outside the classroom when she was studying at night. A boy with a smile on his face, "xxx, you're going to go to the reading room, will you take my seat?" his thoughts should be well known and understandable. But the girl was very disrespectful, she was so angry, she said, "what do you want?" the boy was trained as an idiot and never looked back. All around the crowds are staring at each other。
This type of girl naturally leaves the boys, who are less cheeky and less daring, far behind。
Third, it's very high-profile. After a summer break, a fellow male said with indignation that he had returned by train with a girl. When she was in the car talking, she was a little shy to say that the guys in our department are not family, are not like, are they talented, are they not? To explain, she said that the “family” referred to family conditions. That's not fair. "i think it's because no one's chasing her, and she's a little psychotic." after that, he added a little harshly。
And for the other red-blooded young men, it's understandable how they feel when they hear that. So, for girls of this type, i don't think there's a lot of boys going to get bored。
The fourth is non-eating fireworks. Some of the girls in our department are really too literary, and they're always called li baek doo-pu zhixi, luxhou quo yoo. One of my classmates told me with some anguish that he was looking for such a literary girl. After graduation, they were assigned two places, and it was difficult to face each other, and literary girls were always naive to say, "let me recite a poem to you?" and turned a blind eye to his laundry. I know that revolution is not a treat. But i also know that finding a wife isn't poetry。
For girls of this type, many boys are about to appreciate or look at it, without any other non-diverse ideas。
When i was young, i said i had no talent, but i didn't have little self-esteem. There is no need to say anything about the first and fourth girls, and i can't do anything about the second and third girls. Once they're hairy, make me look bad. That is why i keep a distance from girls who are in the system simply because they are low and weak, not because they are big, they are not human。
Among the people, we may have missed what was best for ourselves and what others had missed. The romantic love of the snow and snow is, in fact, a luxury that cannot be easily consumed. Nor can he hope that the other part of himself, who is not uncle liang, will be to the british, and vice versa. We have had the privilege of going to university, but we cannot change ourselves. So college love, too. It is more real and more reliable to live in a home, to have a feeling of love, to have a feeling of love, to have a long life, than to have so-called love, which is so obstinate and empty。
One of my classmates lamented that we didn't know love in college. So, do you understand now? I don't think so。
When i went to college, dating was one of the prohibited acts for unmarried boys and girls. The head of the department and the counselors, who run the students, make this public as soon as we enter school, and from time to time take every opportunity to beat those who try to cross the border. But even so, it doesn't stop young girls who are so horny from making little underground moves。
From the beginning of the first semester of school attendance, male and female classmates have sneaked out in both directions. Initially, it was deliberately designed to create encounters that appeared to be coincidences, such as going to the reading room to sit together, to borrow books, to catch up with the english word in the back, etc. Until then, the exchange gradually went further. At night, for example, “walking” to crops outside the campus, on sundays to “talking about” in the woods on the outskirts of the river. Although they themselves felt that things were being hidden, bystanders were aware of their little tricks. “a lady, a man and a woman of their right age, is a man and a woman of the right age, who have a good mind to break or mess with。
The university i studied was a teacher training college with departments of art, foreign languages, etc. At that time, university students who studied the arts generally had two conditions, one being that they must have some talent because of the small number of students enrolled and the difficulty of competing; the other was that family conditions were adequate and could afford at least one musical instrument or something. Not unlike today, students who are unable to attend cultural classes, whether or not they are gifted or have family conditions, are forced to take part in the “teaching examination”。
At that time, the art department of our school, the foreign language department, a flower twig, the fragrance of the fragrance, walked around with their heads up and their eyes wide open and looked like a proud day goose. The boys in the general department, who have no idea what they are. If they're in love, they don't give a shit. They're in public, they're making love. Years later, a teacher with an art student told me that his worst problem at the time was to regulate the relationship of his students. Leave it, it's not happy. When he did, nobody listened to him. Later on, one eye was closed, and as long as there was no big deal, there was no room for interference。
The students of other departments, however, are relatively timid, have a hold on the rules of the school, have a hard time covering their eyes and ears, as they work underground。
Some of our classmates started to move around because they were more visible in the arts department and in foreign languages. For example, a fellow student pretended to borrow music from a girl in the art department in the name of his music. When it was returned, it was accompanied by a little love letter. It may be that the girl doesn't exasperate, or that she wants to show up or raise herself, and she knows what she's talking about。
A boy, for example, fell in love with an art schoolgirl at first sight and then started a zealous offensive. In the view of the bystanders, the girl's appearance was rather general, such as that of a pranker, who had given her two nicknames, “backs”, “200 metres”. It means she can only look back, or from 200 meters away. So far i think these two nicknames are too talented. As to the motivation of the boy to pursue her, it is unclear whether the lover's eyes were sushi or simply because she was a mordon of the art department. The two men, who had spent some time in a violent position, flew away。
Romanticism, about men and women in love, is an element that everyone wants. The pursuit of love in university campuses seems to be more visible and intense. But illusory romance is often vulnerable to the realities of life. For example, we had a boy who fell in love with a girl in the art department. Those days when they were in love, it was called a gel. However, when girls went to large cities and boys to small cities at the time of graduation distribution, girls suggested that the precondition for a two-person union was that the boy had to be transferred to the big city where she was located. This is almost impossible for the boy。
One of the classmates met on the train during a holiday trip. They talk about literature, life, love at first sight. Later, it became a relationship. They're thousands of miles apart, and they can't help but spread their stories. For love's sake, after graduation, the student went a long way and became his son-in-law. However, due to the short period of coexistence, there is a lack of in-depth understanding of the character, habits and other aspects. Among the woody oil salts after marriage, once romanticism had to stand aside. The marriage ended in the end。
And there was a poetic classmate who fell in love with a northwestern girl. Two people in love, just as romantic. When the girl returned to the northwest, the two agreed to obtain the permit. Because the road was too long and the traffic was so difficult, the girl sent her marriage certificate and asked her to find a replacement to take it. The student found a good-talking girl from our class who had taken a marriage certificate together as a bride. But it wasn't long before the northwestern girl had changed her mind and sent the divorce certificate. We had no choice but to go with her and get a divorce. It's funny to say, “xxx is the one who's pissed off, a nice girl who hasn't finished college and got married and divorced”
Since love was prohibited at the time at the university, the factors of couples were usually not taken into account when the distribution programme was made at the school level. Separated from one another is often the main killer of college-time love. There is a group of girls and boys who have fallen in love with each other over the first grade. When it became clear that the boys had no chance of reaching there, the girl had written a deep and sincere letter, which, despite the overwhelming sentiment expressed, was the word “break-up”。
The boy said he wasn't in my family, but because he was from his hometown, he had a relationship. He gave me a letter after he was sad. I found that the letter contained three pieces of paper, each of which contained traces of suspected tears. And so i said, "don't be so angry, the girl still has feelings for you. Look at this letter. It's written in tears." i can't believe he's laughing at me: "hey, man, you're so naive, i don't know her? Who knows if that's the water she spilled on purpose."
For the sake of human beings, love with passion and romance is in fact a fragile thing that can't afford to be touched. I wonder if the marriage path of our grade class is not so easy because of the romantic problems. According to incomplete statistics, out of more than 130 students in the whole grade, one third of the senior students who were married before they were enrolled in school, and the rest who started the road of love during university, were married to more than 20 times. In any case, it's too high. In absolute terms, it's over 20%. And that's why it's not all a good side to show what i see as college love。
Men and women of college age are more stable in their marriage if they have less unrealistic romantic pursuits, are realistic and are in love with a view to living with their clients. For example, we have two girls and boys in our grade, both of whom are from rural areas and are in roughly the same condition. And there is no great demand on the part of the two for distribution. At the time of the graduation, both offered to work in a relatively remote location with a larger balance in the distribution plan. The school is naturally happy with this requirement, whether or not they are in love in violation of school rules. The two men were married and had children, and they lived in peace and security. (to be continued)
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