As breastfeeding becomes more and more popular, new mothers are joining the breast-feeding army, and the implementation of the “full two-child” policy has provided policy benefits for this increase. In order to ensure “rations” for children, many new mothers continue to breastfeed and become “back-milk” when they return to work. On the eve of women's day, journalists visited a number of “mothers on the back” who spoke about the difficulty and difficulty of doing so。
"it's really exhausting. Everything is worth it for the baby."
Case: han jian, media, 29 years old
Han usually wears two bags of milk milking “equipment”: two blocks of blue ice, one milk pump, three bottles of milk a piece of blue ice weighs more than a pound and is very tired of getting to and from work。
Although han xin, a very dedicated mother working in a provincial news service in jenan, whose son had been a year and four months old, continued to breastfeed and experienced all kinds of embarrassment and hardship during her back for almost a year, in her words she was prepared to breastfeed naturally, as long as conditions permitted。
After taking maternity leave to return to the workplace, han xin had to re-engage in intense and intense work: timely news, meetings, planning... Back milk is the only option for a mother who wants to keep breastfeeding。
As there is no mother-and-child room, han can only milk in the bathrooms every day, three times a day, which is not as simple as expected, and lifts up clothes and waits for milk to come out. In fact, as milking is heavily disturbed by psychological and environmental factors, every milking is like a war and cannot be completed without 20 minutes to half an hour。
“sometimes milking, and suddenly someone knocks on the door and asks me to hand over the mop, and after a moment of panic, there is no milking.” han can't help but say that milking is milky, and when it comes, it's easy to squeeze it out, and it's gone, and it's urgent. At this point, in order to stimulate the milk camp, han chau can only turn up a picture of his son and imagine how he is eating milk。
The preservation of milk often faces many problems relative to the difficulty of milking. In order to maintain the quality of milk, han will normally carry two bags of milk, with various “equipment” for milking: two pieces of blue ice, one milk pump, three bottles of milk... One blue ice weighs more than a pound and is very tired of going to and from work. Han told journalists that sometimes meetings were held as early as a few years ago and that they had lost milking time and had to endure swelling. In the event of a weekly bus shift (7. 30-24:00 in the morning), blue ice does not guarantee fresh milk and has to borrow from the refrigerator in other sectors。
The other thing that worries han is health. As a result of space restrictions, milking in the bathroom has become imprudent, together with a distance from home, and when a husband is unable to pick up, he has to take a bus home. In a crowded bus, han has to be extremely careful to guard his backpack with death in order to be reached as few as possible by strangers。
Despite the heavy burden of breast milk, it seems to han xian that it is worthwhile to provide children with natural breast milk and to ensure their healthy growth。
"mothers with tits need to feel needed."
Case: dong xiaojun, car sales, 29 years old
Dong xiaojun, who is in the car sales business at the request of the interviewer, is almost two years old, and although she is no longer needing to carry milk, she is deeply moved by her experience. Dong xiaojun is a more sensitive mother who, in the six months of her milk, has not only experienced physical but also psychologically changed experiences。
During nearly six months of maternity leave, dong xiaojun was seen with the baby on a daily basis, watching him grow up a little bit from falling to the ground, with an unspoken sense of happiness. Upon the end of the maternity leave, and on the day of her return to work, she was once reluctant to return to work and had a deep sense of resistance to returning to work. She was psychologically unable to live with the pressure of selling, because she had to be separated from the baby and had only time at night。
With the advice of his husband and father and the pressure to raise children, dong xiaojun eventually returned to work. She told reporters that she had flown back to her home, even though she was at work, and that she was thinking about the baby every hour of every day, whether he was playing with his mother or crying about his mother, or coming into a dream home sweetly. Every move of her son's face was in her head。
“sometimes when i came home, my mother-in-law just fed him milk and watched him go to sleep, and i felt lost, and then he woke up and cried, and when i nursed him, he calmed down, and i found myself happy and content.” dong xiaojun said that children, whether they are hungry, sleepy, or pee, express themselves by crying, and sometimes they can't make a sound of themselves. Breastfeeding is a good way to keep him quiet. Every time a child suckes her breasts down, she has a sense of dependency and need, a sense of satisfaction that supports her back, no matter how tired she is。
"it's not easy to carry milk. I'm ready."
Case: joon-yung guo, catering industry, 26 years old
When the journalist saw jo's daughter at the cheinan emma maternity hospital, she was about to have a son. Unlike the mothers who have had the experience of breast milk, joo's knowledge of breast milk is obtained from friends around and online. She had planned to breastfeed the baby for six months, as the information she had obtained online was that the quality of breast milk would decline after six months, although the doctor had advised her to feed the child until the child was one year old and she followed the doctor's advice。
This means that after maternity leave, she will be a nursing mother for six months. Joo, who worked in a catering industry in chinan, was not very concerned about the breast-milk issue, and she told the press that she was doing financial work in the catering industry, where two or three people shared an office and wanted to find an independent private space。
However, while there is little concern about the back of milk in the workplace, there is some “sweet” in the public sphere。
“on one occasion, friends said that they had to carry their seven-month-old children to the airport, because they had to hold them all the time because they had no suitable place to rest, and had to hold their arms sorely.” guo said that he had seen the experience of the mai-star sharing at the airport during the spring festival, because the journey had not left the mother and child room where the children had been changing diapers, causing a lot of trouble. Therefore, she was “not too daring” to take her child to public. She hoped that the infrastructure would be improved in public and that mothers with children would be provided with basic security。
“it was hard to be a mother, and it was hard to be a mother, and i promoted breastfeeding for the sake of the healthy development of the child.” joo said that, despite hearing a lot of stories about a mother with a mother with a mother with a mother with a mother with a mother with a mother with a mother with a mother with a mother with a mother with a mother with a mother with a child with a mother with a mother with a mother with a mother with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a mother with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a child with a。
