I read a comment from an online user:
My son came to me on tv in the sixth grade and cried so hard, he said he was sick, scared me, and probably the boys were ripe。
There are also many messages under this heading, mostly expressing their understanding and ignorance during adolescence, as one person said:
The night of the sixth grade, when i looked around, my hands were all over the place, and i felt a bit of chatter, and an electric current hit me, and i came out with something white, and i thought i was having a problem and crying to my mom。
The two messages were not too far apart from the one from the son and the other from the mother, but looked closely at them and found that, like the two children, there were many children who had no idea about adolescence。
Some children say they were afraid to speak for a while, and others say that they were scared when they died for the first time, that they were afraid to let their parents know and that they were terminally ill。
It is recalled that when i first went to junior high, i saw the girls come to my aunt with a sanitary towel, and i saw her face and thought it was a bad thing。
When i learned from other classmates that it was the aunt of a girl, i felt so desperate because i thought that the aunt of a girl would be following her on the first day of her life, thinking how much it cost to buy her towels, and thinking that it was a pain for a girl to suffer for so long。
In any case, it's been a long time since i've been really upset。
In our era, parents and teachers were avoiding the topic of gender education, which they felt was difficult and shameful and, together with the narrow channels of communication, we were unable to acquire much of that knowledge。
In fact, even now, many teachers are passing through the biology classes in schools, and parents do not know how to give their children knowledge of the subject, which leads many children to have little or no sex on the internet。
How important is the right gender science channel
In the face of gender literacy, many parents find it difficult to speak and hope that their children will grow up without having to teach themselves, and many parents feel that they are now well-developed and that many knowledge networks exist。
It would be a big mistake to hold such an idea。
When a child enters adolescence, the rapid physical development of the child gives the child a strong sense of curiosity about sexual knowledge, which is a normal psychological response when the child has no access to it and is likely to find answers through a bad website, which is highly undesirable。
One is that the child's current cognitive and judgmental abilities are not perfect, are highly susceptible to misleading information, and that the child's self-control function is poor. Once he/she is addicted to the pleasures of sexual stimulation, he/she is trapped in it, immersing himself with contradictions and pain。
Also, the description on the bad website is relatively exaggerated and contains distortions that can lead to some misperceptions among adolescent girls and boys。
Frequent browsing of poor websites may lead to over-indulging of children, which may affect physical and mental health。
How parents cope with the “sex” of adolescent children
As a result of their semi-maturity, adolescent children are still in a state of ignorance or knowledge, which is the first time in their lives that they have begun to display a desire for sexual knowledge, but without good sex education, so many children do not know how to control the growth of their hearts rationally, leading some children to fail and even to commit crimes, for which parents have an inexcusable responsibility。
Parents must first recognize the objective nature of the child's “sexuality” and, secondly, change the way in which they do not think that their child is really a child and must overcome the psychological and positive and timely transmission of sexual knowledge to the child, which is the best way to protect the child。
Faced with the “sex” of adolescent children, parents should not be shy, which is the most important classroom in their lives and their right to education。
Sexuality is an important symbol of normality, and adolescent sexuality education is an important element in the construction of social ethics and spiritual civilization, contributing to the proper development of the values, life and world views of adolescents, and, above all, their recognition of themselves, and thus their struggle。
Parents must therefore stop treating adolescent children as children and not lose sight of the importance of sex education because it is difficult to speak out。
It is only by giving children a proper understanding of the physical and emotional development of adolescence that they can avoid harming their bodies out of curiosity。
At the age of 12, my daughter's body had begun to develop and came home to talk to me about her class, who spoke most about who liked whom, who was who, who was who, who was who, who was who looked better, who had eight abs and who was who started using an auntie towel。
She also asked me a lot of questions, and to be honest there were some questions that i didn't know how to answer, so she bought her an adolescent book called " mother's book to adolescent girls " , and " mother's book to adolescent sons " 。
This is an adolescent curriculum that contains almost all the problems encountered by children in their youth:
(a) read the physical changes in boys and girls as depicted in the book, so that children are fully aware of their own bodies and of the secrets of changes in their bodies during adolescence, so that they do not encounter problems in their development and do not offend the opposite sex out of curiosity
To teach children about gender relations and how to better deal with opposite sex and emotions
(b) to make the child aware of the changes in adolescence so that he may be in a better position to adjust his emotions
Better to avoid harm by making children aware of the positive and negative effects of the internet on themselves and of the potential dangers on the internet
To know how to deal with relationships with classmates, friends, parents and teachers in order to better prepare children for social development and promote their emotional development
There are many potentially dangerous cases in the book where children are taught how to protect themselves and be vigilant
Tell the child the importance of learning to life, so that the child learns the best of times...
The book, which includes both biological literacy and information on the stage at which the child's body will change, provides the child with an understanding of how to respond and deal with it, as well as professional psychological guidance, a detailed psychological analysis of the adolescent child and a full understanding of the child。
If you have a 10--16-year-old adolescent child, you're strongly advised to have a set of links to me and you can buy them by clicking。
Two books from mother to adolescent daughter
As parents, children can be given sex education in schools, often with much more educational experience than they themselves, which requires parents to work actively with schoolteachers to build a better line of protection for sex education so that children can grow up healthy and maintain good physical and mental health。
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