“the rules of the world are that people walk in cold tea, don't ask and don't know the rules.” – the old saying is true。
On our journey to life, whether in the workplace or in life, we encounter a variety of people and things, and sometimes we meet people who don't know the rules, and sometimes we make mistakes ourselves。
So, what is the truth that walks society must understand? The following are the five points i have summarized。
1. Respect for social rules and ethics line
Society needs rules for its development, and everyone should respect social rules and ethical thresholds. The success of any individual action presupposes stability and coordination without compromising the whole。
For example, in a working environment, every employee, regardless of his or her position, should respect his or her colleagues and leadership and step by step enhance his or her professional capacity and performance in accordance with the rules of simplicity and complexity。
“turn in the water, or fail to enter.” - if a person is unable to observe the rules and moral bottom lines in his or her work or life, there are often unpleasant things. Those who do so need to learn to be tolerant, stop to the best, do what they can, do what they can and hold their own bottom lines in order to gain social recognition。
Two, understand the world and stay awake
The human factor accounts for a large proportion of society, and it is only with knowledge of the human condition that everything can be done and done. In such cases, people often have to deal with things at the level of the phenomenon for some reason, without in-depth discussion, which requires us to remain sober and free from emotions and interests。
“no matter how much you trust a human being, never leave your principles and bottom lines.” — the truth is simple, but it is difficult to do it. Sometimes, for the sake of human beings and interests, we have to abandon our principles and our bottom lines, which require us to think calmly, understand our situation and take decisive decisions。
3. Identification of real-life connections and independent thinking
In society, connections often provide more opportunities and resources for a person, but they are also false. This is the basis of the “know-how” that exists in all walks of life, but we need to be clear: whether a new person is known or how many years he or she has been with, he or she needs to judge and even be alert to social occasions and ways of socialization。
“no one in the world represents you except your parents.” - parents are the most important interpersonal relationship in life, except for those with whom you have genuine reciprocity, which must be said to be useless. It is the understanding of the truth and the ability to think independently that is key to moving through society。
4. Learn to keep distance and avoid unnecessary intimacy
In social settings, the grasp of distance is a skillful art that is too close to respect and too far away from communication and cooperation opportunities. Different relationships with different people can help us to become more aggressive in social interaction。
“take it from socialization, and use it for self-promoting.” - deep appreciation of this can help us avoid unnecessary intimacy in socialization and the myth and admiration that people have generated in the unknown, so that we can truly harness our strengths and better build our own human connections。
5. Embracing self-independent thinking and expressing real views
In our quest for growth, we must embrace self-independent thinking and be courageous in expressing our views and opinions. Independent thinking is an impartial one that requires us to stay awake and to review the situation on the road to society。
“independent thinking can break the shackles, and increased specialization in the field can put life at a higher height.” – sometimes, in order to express a true view, we need to spend a lot of time and energy to prove our point of view, sometimes worth it, sometimes not. But we need to embrace the process to make ourselves more mature, confident and conscious。
In short, as we walk through society, we must abide by social rules, remain conscious, recognize the real and the false, grasp the distance, express our true views and constantly learn and empower ourselves. "not afraid of long roads but of shortness, not of shortness but of height." it is only through continuous upgrading of their capabilities and qualities that they can become more responsive and effective in the process of moving through society。
