It takes time to understand these things:
1. Do not judge others at will and learn to shut up。
2. True friendship does not need to be maintained with deliberate effort。
3. Do not get too close to the current leadership. Outside the workplace, pure feelings of graduation are difficult to achieve. This second is the heart, and the next second could be the heart attack。
4. The advice of others should be listened to and done selectively. After all, you are the master of your own life. Decisions made from within may be regretted, but they will not be blamed, after all, by choice。
5. To be psychologically prepared in advance to accept the reality of the widening gap between themselves and others。
The gap here may be that someone left you far away or that you left someone behind, but the former is much more。
6. Brother-in-law. Matters of interest must be made clear in advance, or in the end even brothers may not be able to do so。
7. Gradually begin to learn to enjoy the time of loneliness and isolation。
8. Do not point fingers unless the other party asks. Whether you're better than each other or just think you're better than each other。
9. Focus only on what matters to you。
10. Do not say bad things about anyone in the same circle. No matter how bad this man is to you, there's no windless wall. That's a good word for you
11. There is no easy word for the adult world. When you get into society, you'll understand that money really matters。
12. The limitations of poor health cannot be overcome by will alone。
13. China has more poor people than i thought, and more rich people than i thought。
14. Many times, our thoughts and emotions are self-inflicted。
15. Be accustomed to finding resources online and making money from them. Don't feel comfortable with a job. It's fake. What if the company goes bankrupt
16. The vast majority of the population has little difference in their iq, and it is their ability to enforce. Having spent an extra hour on active study every day, more than 90 per cent of their peers, in many cases with few rivals。
17. A colleague is a colleague and may become a friend after leaving the office。
As long as they remain in the workplace, there must be a conflict of interest, and it is too naive to talk about feelings in the face of interests. You have to be a little measured when you say things。
Life is nothing but an old disease and death. The most important thing in this world is your life, your life to talk about。
19. Don ' t try to convince anyone, it's useless, it's worn out and it's coming back soon. Save time for persuasion and use the actions and results to crush it。
20. It is not hypocrisy, but the ability to speak and the power to speak. You know how important the inner circle is。
What would a man do when he's in the city
It is clear to them that the good things are not those that have been lost, but that they remain with them. You're not the one who can walk. You're the one who can't。
So don't be sad about what has been lost, lose it, and have to go on。
I can't pay my friends anymore, i can make money again, i can find love again. As long as you have faith in life, life doesn't cost you。
2. Throughout their lives, people have been busy, dealing with woody oil and salt, worrying about food for clothing, and dealing with all kinds of people's experiences, joy and sorrow. Their hearts have been busy and tired。
Life is only a few decades short, and when you're born, you come crying, and when you leave, people cry。
Who's gonna make a good life? Who can live without regret? Who can live without being hurt? Life comes and goes, and there is no time to cherish the present, the people around, and what they have。
It is only by making every moment of the moment better that we really know how to enjoy peace and beauty。
3. They would never go home with a bad mood because they were in the same mood as their families. If the roar can solve the problem, the donkey can rule the world。
Learn to control your emotions and speak nicely, so that you respect others and protect yourself。
4. For them, it is good not to argue, it is smart not to listen to the mess that cleans their ears, and it is easy not to look down on them。
We all have to leave sooner or later, so why don't we just find ourselves something? Everything's so clear, it doesn't mean anything. You know how to put it down before you walk better。
There is too much trouble in the world, and so many people are in pain and fatigue. Be simple, don't be too smart, don't be too smart to live easy。
5. They know that a man lives for himself. It is up to the adults to buy this dress, to eat with whom, to get married and to have children。
Let's hear what people say. If you don't like what they say. What's the point of being happy? Stay away from those who make themselves unhappy。
6. They have always taken a fresh start and kept moving up. The past is behind us, and there's a lot of hope for the future。
You might have stood high, you could've fallen down, you could've struggled, but it was over. It's a good saying: "if you're on this boat of thieves, then be a happy pirate."
Life may have lost its head in the past, but in the future, it is hoped that you will move forward with the wind。
