People grow while they change, they experience things, they see people and they change people. But the price of growth is always painful, even if you've heard more about it than you've fallen, but it's always good to be warned by someone else。
Thinking of yourself as an exception and insisting on doing what you do is right, sooner or later you'll have to fall on both。
While the statements of others may not be justified or suitable for you, they do not mean that there is nothing to draw on at all。
This requires that we have our own thinking and judgement, and it is not wrong to listen to what others say, to understand the essence as a mirror。
So what are the lessons of life and society that you have learned
Here's a summary of a friend of mine, and the sooner he learns the 10 things he's been in society for 20 years。
Men can have no money, but they can't always have no money, because it's a sad thing, and it's bound to be impossible to sustain your behavior and emotions, so anything can only be thought of. Including you want to be valued, respected and complimented。
Even the attitude of the family towards you has changed dramatically, and the loss of weight in others starts with no money。
Either it is the first to suffer, then to enjoy, or it is the first to enjoy, and then to suffer. So don't envy anyone, and don't let down when you're in trouble and trouble, stick to what you can do。
There's nothing wrong with suffering first, and once you get used to it, then you get to it, it's different in nature and different in mind. Also young people, don't envy them. Life is long. It's a long time。
There is no money to be taken away from the people, nor to persuade, because you do not have it, so your advice has no weight, and it is only ugly. If they don't take your feelings and face into account, they'll say something to you, and you'll be quiet. It's hard。
It is only when you have the means that you speak, and then others take your advice seriously. In every day that you are not seen, you have to sneak into it alone。
People come of value, when you have no value, knowing as many people as you can, spending so much, including money, energy and time, in a circle, it doesn't really mean anything. When something happens, you know if you want to help, not to love, not to look at human beings, but at your real value。
The essence of socialization is the exchange of values
And if it is not forced, do not bother anyone, no one. So what you can do on your own, try to do it on your own, even if it takes a little more time and money。
There is no one in this world who is really willing to help, but sometimes there is no shame in it. If someone else helps you and doesn't get any payback afterwards, the relationship between friends is broken。
Don't rely on two people who are very familiar, then behave so casually, and don't overestimate your relationship with anyone. In fact, your relationship is not so strong and you don't matter to each other. It's just you who think it is. You have to be on your own at all times。
If you put your best hope on the other side, then at the critical moment, the other side will surely disappoint you, making your situation even more difficult。
When you're young, you lose love, you feel that life is meaningless, that you can't live without each other. When you go through real life, you'll find that it's not worth it。
Even if you're better, there's someone who doesn't like you, even if you're worse, and you've got three or two best friends. Since you can't satisfy everyone, don't care too much about the standards and feelings of others, it'll make you lose yourself。
It is the same in emotions, being yourself is the most attractive and not blindly flattering. It only makes you more painful and useless。
Too good for a person, who gets used to it, and then thinks it's all you should do, and if you have a bad one, then all the good things you've done before, don't count. In gender relations, one person is treated too well and, in turn, the other person is despised。
Too good for a man in a friend's relationship, which in turn can only be ridiculed and called you a fool behind your back. The people who really deserve it are those who can respond to it。
Don't take it personally. The difference between man and man is a little bit wide open, and it doesn't mean that while you're at ease, you're at ease, you're at a beat, you're at a beat, you're at a beat, you're at all。
And when you are young, do not be vain, lest mid-life regret, and do more meaningful things that will lift you up and settle you。
There are certain reasons, some of which must be heard, and there are no shortcuts to life, and there will never be a good thing about a pie falling out of the sky, who likes to take advantage of it, and who will eventually suffer. Everything that looks free is actually the most expensive。
If there is no life, the more careful it is at its crossroads, the more careful it is, the choice may be a life。
At a young age, try to build the foundations of a career, but at the same time, you have to build the foundations of a body, how about being young。
God is fair, and no one can take all the good things, or you have the good things here, and he has the good things, but he doesn't have the perfect life. Be good to man, but have a little hardness to do good to you, for those who are always bullied are too good。
Later on, it was also necessary to be a person who could hide things. No one liked to hear your complaints and complaints. People were with people, and what was most desired was happiness. So a friend of the virgins, whatever your purpose, can be a mere playmate, but cannot rest on a friend's hope in his life。
