There are five signs of spirituality in the house: a house like this flourishes and its physical and mental well-being
Chang lived in that old house for 15 years and never wanted to move。
Friends told him, "you've been in this house for 20 years, it's time for a new one." the old laughs and shakes your head. He could not afford a new house, but could not afford it. It's weird that every time he walks into the house, he feels like he's being hugged. The window in the living room, headed south, was spilled on time every afternoon, just in the place where he usually sat on the couch. Even the old cat he raised was sleeping in that light every day。
And then he knew that it was the first sign of spirituality -- the house will remember your habits。
Many people don't believe in the spirituality of the house and think it's superstition. But think about it, the house has lived for decades, the walls have absorbed so many laughters, the floor has so many steps, even the air smells of the family. It's like giving the house a soul。
I have studied the relationship between the living environment and the human being, visiting thousands of families for more than a decade and discovering that there are some common features that make people feel comfortable and live for a long time. These characteristics are not windwater science, but are real and visible signs。
The first sign is that plants grow special in this family. Okay
Have you noticed that some of the plants that are raised in houses can grow so thick that water is pouring on them, and that some houses can buy a pot of dead flowers in exchange for nothing
This is actually the most intuitive expression of the house。
I know an aunt named wang, who lives in an ordinary residential building in the old town, a small house of over 70 square metres, but her balcony is a small garden. Triangular plums are crawling on half a balcony, and the green roses fall down from the ceiling like a green curtain, and even the hard-to-eat twilight twilight flowers are used in her house。
Aunt wang said to me, "this house has everything to live for."
At first, i didn't believe it, and then i sat at her house all afternoon to find out the point. Her house is particularly well ventilated, and she's just fine in the air. The light is also glamorous: the sun on the east side of the morning goes into the bedroom, the sun on the west side falls in the living room, and bright, but unobserved, light all day. More importantly, her family is well wet, dry, and breathing is particularly comfortable。
Plants are the most sensitive organisms. They can't talk, but they'll tell you how well the environment is. A house that doesn't even feed its plants
In turn, the rich homes of the plants are often well-circulationed, wet and sun-fed, and people live in such environments, and they look well, spiritually and naturally flourish。
Second sign: the sound of the home is reassuring
Many do not notice this, but the sound is an important indicator of the spirituality of the house。
I've been to some houses and i feel uncomfortable coming in. Listen carefully, either the sound of the air conditioner buzzer, the noise of the next television station, or the flow of the car outside the window, and in any case the silence. It's been living in this house for a long time。
And the good house has its own sound rhythm。
In summer, after noon, the wind blows through the leaves outside the window, and the sand sounds like a little hum. In winter nights, there is occasionally a slight flow of water in the heating tablet, which makes people feel warm and warm. In the rain, the rain falls on the shed, and the sound of cracking is not loud, but rather makes people want to sleep on the couch。
I have a friend, li, who changed four houses in the city and finally bought an old one in the suburbs. Asked him why he chose it, he said, "this house speaks."
He told me that the first time i went to the house was at nightfall. He stood on the balcony and heard the sound of cut food from his neighbor's house downstairs, the sound of pot shovels, and the sound of pencils on paper when a child wrote his homework. I can't believe he's so relieved by the mix. He said that that was the voice of his grandmother when he was a child, the voice of his family。
He had lived in that house for five years, had a better career and had a healthy child. He said that when he went home from work every day, the key went into the lockhole, the whole person was relaxed。
A good house is like a giant silencer that filters out the noises of the outside world and leaves a calming voice. Such a sound environment can potentially affect people's emotions and mentalities and make them more peaceful and focused. A person with a calm mind can do what is right and life flourishes。
The third sign is that the doors and windows are open and they don't ring
It's a very small sign, but it's a college question。
When i did my research, i found that there was often one thing in common: the doors were not open, the windows were not open. Either the door frame has been deformed and the door has to be pulled hard; or the window has been rusted, and it has taken a lot of effort to push。
You might say, isn't that normal? These problems happen when the house is old。
But what i'd like to tell you is that this is exactly what's wrong with the relationship。
The doors and windows are the breathing passage of the house. A healthy house, its doors and windows should be flexible and smooth. Just like a man's breath, it's good to be clean. If doors and windows are difficult to open, this means that the wall is deformed, the foundations are sunk and the entire structure is decaying. Is it safe to live in a house like this
I've seen a hundred-year-old house in the south, but despite its age, the doors and windows are still smooth, and they are just pushed and they close. The master told me that the house had been handed over for five generations, and that every generation was in love with it, that it was maintained on a regular basis and that it would never fail。
Three university students, one entrepreneur, family harmony, and a flourishing man, were present in this old house. Is that a coincidence
I feel that it is the love of every generation for the house that keeps it in good shape, and that a good environment in turn nourishes the people living there. That's how people and houses work together。
So you see, the doors and windows are broken, and you're told, "there's no bond between the house and the people." there's a place to live in。
Fourth sign: you can sleep at home
Sleep is a test of the spirit of the house。
Almost one third of the time a person spends every day at home, most of it sleeping. If a house turns your head and sleeps until dawn, it's absolutely spiritual。
I have a reader named chen who used to live in a high-rise apartment in downtown, on 30s, with a good view, but she can't sleep well every day. It's either the music from the bar downstairs, or the noise from the tenants next door, or it's just the irritation of lying on the bed and falling asleep。
She then moved to an old suburban block, 6th floor, without an elevator. The house was small, but she said that she slept in that bed for the first time for 10 hours, and that she woke up all well, like removing a heavy armor。
She said to me, "i don't know why, in that house, i came too fast, just like someone slapping my back to sleep."
That's how the spirit of the house works。
The magnetic field of a good house is stable and peaceful. It doesn't make you nervous, it doesn't make you anxious, but it's like a giant hug that wraps you up, lets you down and sleep。
On the contrary, the houses that make you insomnia either have disturbances in the environment that you can't feel — low-frequency noise, electromagnetic radiation, harmful gases, or space layouts that are unreasonable and unsettling。
Sleep poorly, sick. Sleep well, sickly. A house that makes you sleep at night is the best breeding ground。
The fifth sign: things at home are bad
This is rarely noticed, but i think it is the most amazing sign。
I know an old couple, and their family's stuff is really good. It took 20 years for an electric fan to be broken, 15 years for an electric meal and even longer than others. And the old lady said to me, "this house, the spirit, everything is broken slow."
At first, i thought she was well-maintained and then went several times to find out that there was something special about her home。
First, the humidity is well controlled. Her family's constant annual humidity is between 50 and 60, which is an area where appliances are not susceptible to damp, furniture is not easy to deform and walls are not easy to remove。
Next, there is little dust. Although her family lives on the side of the road, there is particularly little dust in the house. It was later known that a line of winter was planted outside her window, creating a natural dust barrier. There's less dust, electrical heat, it's not bad。
And her circuits are stable. The voltage fluctuations are small, electrical shocks are small and the useful life is natural。
Taken together, these factors have led to a phenomenon in her family that is “bad and slow”。
But that is not the most critical。
Most importantly, the family has a good mind. Things are broken, they can still be fixed; they can't be repaired, they can't be gruesome, they can't be changed. Instead of being impatience, this mentality gives the best use and maintenance of household goods。
So, a home where things are bad and slow is actually a small, well-functioning ecosystem. It has not only a good physical environment, but also a good human environment. It is difficult for such a family to flourish if people live in this environment in a peaceful, impatient and patient and orderly manner。
Houses are like people, life。
And be good to you, and it will be good to you, and you will manage it with your heart, and it will give it back to you in the best state。
It's an old house that's been in there for 15 years. He redecorated, replaced the new chef, painted the new wall, but kept the window that would light into the sun and the little balcony that would reassure him。
The day he moved, he stood at the door and said to the empty house: "old man, we'll be 15 years."
That sounds silly, but i think it is precisely the best relationship between people and the house — with each other, with each other and with each other, getting old。
Whether the house is spiritual or not depends, in the end, on whether the person who lives in it has the heart or not。
A pot of flowers, a piece of furniture, a piece of furniture, a corner, a little bit of love and warmth into this space. And slowly, the house becomes spiritual and becomes a real home。
And a real home will give you peace of mind and peace and prosperity。
